How much sex does the average 19-23 year old male have?

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  1. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    I feel like I'm underachieving, I'm nothing special in looks or anything, but I've only slept with 2 girls, and I'm 20. They were both in serious relationships too, so it's not like I didn't have to work for it. In the past 5 months I've had sex twice, and it's with one of my ex's.

    Now I have no girlfriends, I don't want one either because of the drama involved. How am I suppose to get laid? Am I suppose to get laid?

    Is getting laid a rarity for most people who aren't good looking/have an extraordinarily fun personality?

    Is it like the movies where guys just go out and get laid once a month with some random skank? I've been to alot of bars and clubs, and it just doesn't work for me anywhere like that.

    How do you get girls to go home with you? The most I get is to dance with them for a bit, there's barely any room for conversation with the music blaring, and even if I did talk to them, there's nothing I could say in 5 mins which could convince them to let me stick my cock in them.
     
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    jonno New Member

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    the average guy NOT in a relationship rarely gets laid
     
  3. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    good, at least I know I'm not a big failure

    what the fuck do all those average guys go to clubs to do every week then? they drop 100 bucks hoping this is their week?
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Because they are dumb.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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  6. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    by rarely, we're talking what?

    six months? once a year? once every 2 years?
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I actually don't have sex outside of relationships. I have friends who sleep with anything that walks though and even they only get laid once in a while when they are single. It really depends on your standards. If you are looking for a potential mate then you're less likely to get laid all the time because your standards will be higher. That being said there is no standard amount that a guy gets. Trying to put a number or time frame on how often single guys get laid is like trying to guess how often a particular episode of Friends is rerun.
     
  8. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    What's a good number of random encounters to hope for then?
     
  9. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    For me? None. For you? Hope for as many as you want. :mamoru:
     
  10. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    get a regular fun fuckbuddy. That keeps you in the pussy without spending money.

    And fuck clubs. Are you in college ? That's your best source of women.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why do you care so much?

    Is a certain number of sexual conquests going to make you feel more "normal" or more like a "man?" Sounds like you want to become a whore. Quality > quantity.
     
  12. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    I feel sexually unsatisfied, I want to fuck all day long with different women. Of course that's not feasible, I just want to know what's a reasonable limit for my needs.

    Oh and most girls in college go to bars/clubs on the weekend, house parties I've had more success with, but it's just about the same thing really. A few girls I've met in classes I've flirted with, and I've asked them to study after class with me, but they really meant studying.
     
  13. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    If you want to pick up some bar slut its not what you say its how you send the signal. Every time i brought home or went home with a girl from a club it started on the dance floor. The talking doesnt need to be much to make it happen if your body is saying the right things.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Get used to it, man. Just because you want to fuck all day with different women doesn't mean you should. I want to eat chocolate instead of vegetables and play video games instead of going to work too, but guess what? Life doesn't work that way. Sorry to burst your bubble. Best you're going to do is find someone who will have sex with you on a regular basis. Besides if you really could fuck different women all day, you would quickly realize that isn't what you really want. It's a fantasy.
     
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    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    Maybe for you.... :hsd:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Yeah. Because the reality of fucking different women every day means I can't develop a real relationship with a woman. Sure, it's possible to fuck different women all the time, but the reality of it is nowhere near as nice as it seems. Hence: It's a fantasy.
     
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    You are asking all the wrong questions.
     
  18. Original

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    sure if that's the signals you're sending them. be more assertive :naughty:
     
  19. knucks

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    I don't think there's an average, it varies.

    If I get some from time to time, I don't care.
    It's when I want some, and I can't get any, that's when it sucks.
     
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    I know a guy who picked up a random chick everytime he went out. He would walk up to every chick in the bar and say "wanna fuck?" He got slapped a lot but it seemed to work 90% of the time.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Think about this for a second...why would strangers and/or society in general know what YOUR needs are?

    Meet women. Ask them out. Sleep with them if you want. Wear a condom. Decide if how many and which women you are sleeping with satisfy your needs. End of story.
     
  22. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    i disagree. if you're in an environment with a decent party scene and you're not hideous then it shouldn't be too hard at all.

    unless i'm just surrounded by whores who fuck too much.
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I don't think this describes the average guy. :mamoru:
     
  24. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    college? :dunno:
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Maybe our perspectives of average are different, but my idea of an average college guy is not someone who goes to parties every weekend. There are plenty of people in college that do, but I would not call them average.
     

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