I feel like I'm underachieving, I'm nothing special in looks or anything, but I've only slept with 2 girls, and I'm 20. They were both in serious relationships too, so it's not like I didn't have to work for it. In the past 5 months I've had sex twice, and it's with one of my ex's. Now I have no girlfriends, I don't want one either because of the drama involved. How am I suppose to get laid? Am I suppose to get laid? Is getting laid a rarity for most people who aren't good looking/have an extraordinarily fun personality? Is it like the movies where guys just go out and get laid once a month with some random skank? I've been to alot of bars and clubs, and it just doesn't work for me anywhere like that. How do you get girls to go home with you? The most I get is to dance with them for a bit, there's barely any room for conversation with the music blaring, and even if I did talk to them, there's nothing I could say in 5 mins which could convince them to let me stick my cock in them.