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  1. sassy2424

    sassy2424 New Member

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    Would quit doing something if your SO asked you to?
    not something vital to you living of course...(eating, drinking liquids..), but drugs or gambling...?:dunno:
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    Without a thought, yes (not that I do drugs or gamble). There must be a reason behind it though.
     
  3. lauren

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    depends on the reason, duration of habbit (ie, started before our history together or not) and what it was. if, say he thought gambling was immoral, and its something i enjoyed, then no.

    if, say, i was betting myself into a hole, then yeh. probably.


    in generally though, i dont care much for ''quitting" stuff for a SO. thats the wrong reason to change, and it wont likely last (and, may result in doing stuff behind ones back).
     
  4. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Agreed. Nobody has the right to change me unless it's something superficial that I'm not deeply vested in.
     
  5. Bella

    Bella New Member

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    I have asked my SO to stop talking to a person just due to the damage the person has caused our family. And he hasn't :) Other than that thankfully I dont need to ask him to quit anything
     
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    I'd have to go with no. It's my life and I'm glad someone else can enjoy it with me, but I'm not going to change myself to comprimise because that is cheating myself of my potential.
     
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    i chewed tobbaco when i met her and she always asked me to stop and i finnally relized that she just didnt want somthing to happen to me like mouth cancer so i handed my pouch to her and i never chewed again. then i got rewarded very nicley:naughty:
     
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    id have to say fuck off in the nicest way possible
     
  9. Raynne

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    i need to stop smoking cause my bf asked me to..but its hard to quit =( im hoping eventually it will happent though
     
  10. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    If I was doing it beforehand and I enjoyed it, no I wouldn't stop. If I took it up during and there was a proper logical reason against it, I'd consider it. Chances are I wouldn't stop just for her.
     
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    depends on what it is. Most of the time yes though
     
  12. MongooseGA

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    My girl friend stopped smoking for me. She's Bulgarian and apparently all of her European friends do it. She's since quit and now it disgusts her.
     
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    if it was something that was a bigger issue...then yes.

    like something that was damaging and went against my morals/values

    like smoking or drug use, if my GF was doing drugs, I would ask her to stop(if she didn't...then I can't just let that slide and I would leave). And if I was doing drugs, then I would understand if she'd ask me the same thing.

    if it were something like drugs...then I would. I think that if I was really serious about my SO....then she would be more important that something as superficial as drugs. Besides...there's other reasons to quit something like that aswell.



    oh and I agree with what Lauren said.
     
  14. Whiffa

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    I quit smoking cigarettes for my boyfriend. :dunno:
     
  15. Yotes

    Yotes New Member

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    If any girl ever asks me to stop kayaking she's kicked to the curb, tough shit, the river wins. (Yes I've had the "it's me or the kayak, pick one" speech before, don't regret my choice in the least).
     
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    drunkn monki3 New Member

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    depends on the habit and who is askin for me
     
  17. The Mafia

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    sounds harsh, but sweetie, he's done you a huge favour.
     
  18. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I know my partner wouldn't ask me to stop something unless it really mattered to him - so yes I would
     
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    exactly. i would never ask my bf to stop something unless it was hurting him somehow or really important to me. the same way i wouldnt want him to ask me to stop something unless it meant a lot to him too. 3 years & we've only had one mishap with a situation like this
     
  20. pdsterns

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    mine can't remember to do anything I ask. I asked him to use the hamper, put the seat down, finish anything he starts and to pay his taxes, no luck. Moves into new house and leaves stuff he moved sitting in backyard, he is a loser, I thiink.
     
  21. Whiffa

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    i'm not complaining at all. I'm glad :hs:
     
  22. Chipwich

    Chipwich Porno Mustache

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    :ugh2: any girl that wants you to give up something you love is not worth it.
     
  23. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    He wouldn't tell me to stop something unless it was detrimental to my health, our relationship, or illegal/dangerous. I trust his judgement and if he asked me to stop something or change a behaviour, i'd try my best to comply.
     
  24. low20

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    i asked my SO to quit bugging me but she keeps coming back...oh well hahaha jk
     
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    My girlfriend hates when i smoke weed which is incredibly ironic because she was the one who got me to try it for the first time. I haven't quit because of her but i'll never do it whenever i have to see/talk to her.
     

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