How many of you ever got a dear john letter or something of that nature while you were away in bootcamp or on deployment? My exgf in whom was deeply in love with me before i left for iraq and who i was planning on marrying etc broke up with me 5 days after i got home. i left last year on june 1st for training... shit went sour while i was in iraq in december...i got home in april and she broke up with me 5 days later. i am so deeply hurt and offended i honestly dont think i will ever be the same or be able to trust again. i wish she would turn into a man for 10 minutes so i could beat the living fuck out of her. I have so much against her yet i am still in love with her. i would go back to iraq again without pay if i knew when i got back that stuff would be the way it was...or where it should be. obviously thats not possible. i have come to the conclusion that other people "just dont get it".. refering to my experiences in iraq and whatnot. i know its somewhat not their faults but it irks me to my core. k im gonna stop writing now cuz the more i write the more pissed off i get.