How many is too many?

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  1. coldstone

    coldstone New Member

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    Do you care how many people your SO has slept with? Do you have a cutoff number? How many is too many for you?




    Personally, I don't care. So long as she is clean, I don't care nor do I ask how many people she's slept with in the past.

    I was inspired by this thread.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'd prefer his number be under 15, but if it wasn't I'd obviously at this point still be with him regardless :dunno:
     
  3. coldstone

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    Do you actually ask your guy?
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    God no. I think his number is one more than mine and I could care less. We've never had the talk because it's just not important honestly; at least not to me.
     
  5. coldstone

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    I've had girls ask me before and I don't know what to say. Usually, it's almost always the prissier girls that ask, so I have to lie or change the topic. :o The more "open" girls have never asked.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Makes sense really. The prissy one's are more likely uptight about sex in general so the number matters. It just blows my mind so many couples actually bring it up as if it's a ritual "talk" to go through.
     
  7. coldstone

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    Yeah, it's mind bottling to me.
     
  8. D7

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    This

    Someone's experiences define them

    And seriously, I'm only bed a man who I think can rock my world. Otherwise I'm not interested and I don't waste my time.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru:
     
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    I ask because I like to know everything. Does it really matter, no. I don't care. Unless its over 20. Then you just defiantly had way to many encounters and I really would wonder if you had something.
     
  11. coldstone

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    Although I like my pizza mine, every now and then I need to have one of these conversations too.

     
  12. teep

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    after my last relationship i've learned that it's much better to skip that talk. still... double digits at my age would make me a little uneasy :dunno:

    i always seem to get an idea regardless though, cause whenever i get to know a girl we always talk about old relationships at some point
     
  13. scent of a wookie

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    I wish I had slept with less people, to avoid the awkwardness associated with this question
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: great job contradicting yourself
     
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    really i don't want to know.
     
  16. Falconer

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    Yeah I care. Vag crew will say it's cuz I'm insecure but it's more a method of judging compatibility. For example, if I like a chick but I find out she's fucked 200 guys, that's probably indicative of some deeper incompatibility between us as she will have different values regarding sex than I do.

    So it's partially because I think it's gross that she's had 200 dicks inside of her, but also because I don't want to be with someone who allows themselves to fuck 200 different guys, because logistically speaking many of them would have to have been one night stands, and I'm not too keen on dating a chick who's into that stuff.

    Too many for me is "significantly more than me adjusting for our ages."

    I ask. Same as asking what'what kind of music do you like or what's your view on politics. It's something that is necessary to know that you are compatible (assuming you're talking about LTRs).

    Ok, am I the only person on OT for whom hyperlinked threads don't appear any differently? I didn't know that was a link until I put my cursor over it.I thought links were supposed to be underlined blue or something.
     
  17. Falconer

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    Maybe it's the grey color scheme I'm using?

    Hang on i'll post a pic
     
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    <(age-18)/3 +2
     
  19. Falconer

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    yeh, mine look like plain text until i cursor over them.
     
  21. D-FENS

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    Being 19, I'd say about 8-10 is my comfort level, but I care much more about what kind of guy they've been with than how many. I'd be cooler with a girl who's slept with 20 respectable guys than 5 total douchebags.
     
  22. Falconer

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    Just so I'm reading this right, you think 10 is a decent number for someone who is 19?
     
  23. Falconer

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    Hey that's pretty good.

    I think I fall within those boundaries... I think... it's 3am and I don't know if I kept order of operations when I did it in my head just now. Time for bed.
     
  24. D-FENS

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    Actually I'm with 21 year old chick (I look like I'm 24) so I'm thinking more about her, but for 19, I'd still say 6-8. I don't really mind a girl who sleeps around as long as she's cool.
     
  25. Mugen92GS-R

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    Most of my exes were well in their 20's. Not something I wan to repeat...
     

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