LGBT How many Bi guys are here?

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Sckrewy, Apr 18, 2008.

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Are you bisexual?

  1. Yes

    28 vote(s)
    48.3%
  2. No

    19 vote(s)
    32.8%
  3. Not sure

    5 vote(s)
    8.6%
  4. I'll fuck anything (goes both ways)- species or sexuality unimprotant

    8 vote(s)
    13.8%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Sckrewy

    Sckrewy New Member

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    On one hand you get the best of both worlds - on the other you don't really fit into nor completely accepted into either circle.

    I'm married, and I like it that way. My wife allows me to play with guys if she gets to play also (she's very straight - no girls allowed - ok with me). I've been seeing a guy for 4+ years. It works well although we'd both like more... of everything. He lives about an hour away which is good and bad. Wifeand I have talked with him about him moving in with us, sounds like fun but not realistic at all (he's got grown children, mine are still living at home and will be for at least 10 more years). More wishful thinking if anything. He needs a full time relationship; I can't offer that.

    Compromises are just that: compromises

    Do you have any interesting stories? :wiggle:
     
  2. 2500

    2500 Guest

    I'm bi, but, I'm in a relationship with a guy. I had the best of both worlds, but being in a relationship to me, means chosing one world. My boyfriend offers me everything I want, so it doesn't leave me wanting very much more.
     
  3. Sckrewy

    Sckrewy New Member

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    :eek3: What about boobs? :p Gotta have boobies to play with!! :naughty:
     
  4. 2500

    2500 Guest

    My boyfriend is a little chubby :mamoru:
     
  5. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    I'm still attracted to women but I had plenty of them before I came out so I'm enjoying my men exclusively for the time being.
     
  6. CaptainSerious

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    I'm bi, and only recently came to terms with it. I dont advertise it, but i dont make a point of keeping it a secret.
    I find it a bit difficult to meet other guys for dating and hanging out with. Sex is easy to get, but if is not with someone you know and trust a little its just a meaningless act.
    Therefore, my experience (sexually) with guys is fairly minimal because i dont really like hooking up with randoms.
    At this stage i just want to test the waters, find out what i like and dont like but as i said its difficult to do that because my experiences are usually just limited to hookups which i'm never fully comfortable with.
    Any ideas on how i can meet more guys in a friendly social way rather than a sleazy club setting?
     
  7. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    I'm not attracted to women sexually.
    I'm attracted to women emotionally, however... I have very deep, loving relationships with women... I just don't want to see their vagina.
     
  8. Josey

    Josey New Member

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    who are the two that voted "I'll fuck anything"...i just gotta know
     
  9. Ivan

    Ivan New Member

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    I only like guys. Women just don't do anything to me.
     
  10. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    +1
     
  11. Naturally Baked

    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    havent done anything with girls since I was 10 or 11....done stuff with guys recently so I know that I like guys. I know I get emotionally into guys and dont really with girls. Havent done anything sexually with a girl recently and im not sure how it would work out....so i put not sure. Id consider myself gay though. I guess im just open to anything
     
  12. dallasfan824

    dallasfan824 New Member

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    aka...im a slut.


    :mamoru: :p
     
  13. Naturally Baked

    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    :hsughno:
     
  14. Sckrewy

    Sckrewy New Member

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    :mamoru:
     
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    hmmm, no, not the same. :squint:
     
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    :mamoru:





    I'm a girl and I used to identify myself as a bi woman. Now I hate that label most of all. I'm still attracted to men, but I don't see myself sleeping with one ever again. Sorry I know you asked "how many bi guys?" but most threads in this forum are make focused. Not fair! :hs:
     
  17. audrey

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    Have you thought about signing up to gaydar or sites like that? Do you have any queer male friends at all?
     
  18. tattooed_sailor

    tattooed_sailor New Member

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    I am most definitely bisexual. I've had several long term relationships with women, the last one being five years, four of which were married.

    I've always been the type to explore and try new things, despite my own prejudices and severely conservative upbringing.

    Right now I've been seeing a few guys, but nothing serious. I find that my emotional state at the present makes even the thought of a relationship repugnant, even though I am most happy when I have someone to share my life with.
     
  19. Sckrewy

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    I didn't mean to exclude the womenz; I just wasn't interested. Bi girls and lesbians don't excite me. :eek3: Sorry, that reads a lot harsher than I feel; try not to get offended. ;)

    Guys like tattooed_sailor are the ones I most likely relate to (without the negative relationship stuffs).

    I'm trying to balance two relationships. It's not too difficult for me as I've set boundaries for myself. I think it's harder on my wife and boyfriend though.
     
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    tattooed_sailor New Member

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    I don't understand the ability to balance two relationships, but thats just me.

    I was given "permission" to tap something on the side, but I think it was more an excuse to get rid of me than anything. I never took her up on the offer.

    I focus too much
     
  21. audrey

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    I don't think I could possibly manage 2 relationships either. It just sounds so exhausting.
     
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    Yeah I can't manage to stay in one! :o
     
  23. audrey

    audrey New Member

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    :rofl: Have you had a bf blaq?
     
  24. blaq19

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    No, not really it never makes it past a week... they just get boring! :hs:
     
  25. audrey

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    awww!!
     

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