how long will i last???? v.exgf vs NC

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  1. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    i broke up with my gf and she wants me back and wants to work things out. we've been in a crazy ROLLERCOASTER relationship for the last 6months. (broke up many times already--but i keep taking her back)

    anyways, starting today, im going to start doign the "NO CONTACT" with her.... no txt or phone call...... (on my side at least). she can txt me, but i wont reply.


    i dont wanna be with her anymore, coz she just doesnt change....no matter what, shes "SCAR" for life from her previous relationship.


    anyways, i wanna do this for AT LEAST 3 weeks.....1month the most. (may be she will realized what she let go and change? :dunno: )


    am i gonna be able to make it? :x:


    (i already deleted her name off my phonebook, but still doesnt help since i memorized it :o )
     
  2. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    keep yourself busy, dont lay around wallowing in self pity. ignore her messages. if you notice it's from her, delete it. you can make it, be strong. everytime you think about getting with her, remember the hell she's put you through and how she isn't good for you.
     
  3. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    People dont change, I feel your pain though. Its not easy to accept, I still havent accepted it, but atleast be aware of the fact that people seldom rarely ever change. Think of that everytime you miss her, everytime her smile pops into your head, then think of all the bullshit you've been thru, the nights you sat home miserable.....people dont change......but your luck might if you dont get swept back into things. Good luck. I rememver all your threads, Its never easy.
     
  4. LS Boy

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    thanks fellas. im doing ALOT better from before....now i rarely care...but i "still" have that lil bit of "missing" the IDEA of her in my mind.

    but then again, this is why im doing what im doing. things do happen for a reason. :x:
     
  5. NeonImpact

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    you should try a NO CONTACT order.
     
  6. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    what do you mean "NO CONTACT ORDER"?
     
  7. Amanda Renee

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    just remember you can NOT change people.
     
  8. NeonImpact

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    It's a written order from your state/county court system stating how she cannot contact/talk/visit or anything like that.

    Always the last thing.
     
  9. CyberBullets

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    well done dude
     
  10. LS Boy

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    UPDATE:

    she txt me yesterday (thursday noon) and apologizing for dissing me the night before...gave me some crap reason.
    i didnt reply back.
    then later that night, (at 8pm) when she got off work, she called me....i didnt pick up.

    since then, she hasnt called me or txt me. but then again, there was 2 missed calls that i have today who was "anonymous" (aka they blocked the number).
     
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    she won't change.. make it 3 years instead of 3 weeks :hs:
     
  12. michael

    michael FLORIDA > *

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    replace 3 years with "until you die"
     

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