How long should you know the girl before asking her out?

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  1. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    I've known this girl for a long time but never really interested until recently about 4 weeks ago and I've tried to hang out when I have time and call her once in awhile ( no clinginess ) but my question is how well should you know the person before you ask them on a date?

    I plan on asking her tonight but am starting to think maybe I should wait longer but then I think well that's half the point of dating is to get to know eachother more personally.... :noes:
     
  2. Hotrodheb

    Hotrodheb New Member

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    Sure, you can wait longer if you really want to stay in the friend zone!

    If you want any chance of jumping ladders, you need to act now!

    Dating is when you should get to know someone!
     
  3. PaZzEsCo

    PaZzEsCo New Member

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    ^ Agreed!! You'll be in the friend zone soon. Dating is all about getting to know someone and learning their interests. My guy asked me out on a date the first day we met and talked, so he didn't wait long at all and that was fine with me.
     
  4. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    alright that's what I was thinking too that I should just get it over with :p

    friend zone is a bad bad zone, this girl isn't much of a dater though that's why I waited..
     
  5. Beesgirl

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    I agree, ask her out now. Get to know her on the date so she views you as her "date" and not her as "friend"
     
  6. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Well I guess it's sorta good we've only hung out a few times and not a ton like a few of my 'girl' friends were suggesting <whew>
     
  7. symptic

    symptic I run companies

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    You can ask them out whenever, but you shouldn't consider anyhting a real relationship until at LEAST 90 days after you start "dating."
     
  8. guchiew

    guchiew Increase your killing power.

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    Smart newb.
     
  9. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    aka take it slow...

    And I'm not after this girl to do anything sexual really just a closer friend I guess :)
     
  10. Hotrodheb

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    :rofl: 36 years of life experience will do that to you!:rofl:

    I think they call it Wisdom!;)
     
  11. hewmanbing

    hewmanbing your mom is hot.

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    I suppose you don't masturbate either :rolleyes:
     
  12. BradUF

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    Odd, most guys like to have sex with there girl friends.
     
  13. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    <shrug> I never said it would never happen but it's not something I want to be involved in the relationship unless she wants it I will never push it ever in my life until I'm married and want to have a kid.
     
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    Oh trust me, once you're dating her you'll want sex a lot. ;) Take her out some place nice and tell her you think you might be interested in her, as in more than just friends. Then ask what she thinks about that.
     
  15. symptic

    symptic I run companies

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    Does it have to be some place nice? So it looks like you're trying to BUY her interest? :nono:
     
  16. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    well shit didn't go over well if you read my other thread, huge problem... long
     
  17. {WBK}Blood_Lust

    {WBK}Blood_Lust New Member

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    first 5 minutes after meeting them is when you should make a move!

    You've hung around with her so long now that she's gonna tell you that you're a friend and you're gonna just hang around as other guys swoop in and put the screws to her. I don't mean to be a dickhead but the truth is the truth, these other people are being to nice and dancing around the truth of the matter.

    Good luck though, i hope i'm wrong.
     

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