FRK How long into a new relationship before you tell

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  1. zdsquared

    zdsquared OT Supporter

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    Your new partner about your freaky side :dunno:
     
  2. farmguy

    farmguy New Member

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    Why wait? :wiggle::wiggle::wiggle:
     
  3. Mr Larry Johnson

    Mr Larry Johnson Ain't so funny meow, is it? OT Supporter

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    If I move fast the first night it comes out usually.
     
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    Whenever it comes up. Don't hide it, but don't push it.
     
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    start slow if they llike it just go for it
     
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    I think its usually part of the "getting to know you" phase before a relationship even starts for me. It doesn't mean you have to tell them in graphic detail about your kink but I'd just assume they know because vanilla is a deal breaker for me anyway.
     
  7. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    Depends, sometimes it's out just talking with her, but it definately comes out in any play before we actually sleep togeather.
     
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    Yeah go for gold!
     
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    She'll know well beforehand. :)
     
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  13. Lech

    Lech Rhymes with fetch.

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    I tell them before I get into the relationship, because I'm not going to waste my time with someone who is into vanilla sex.
     
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    Early, and let them know on a scale from one to ten where you stand. I'd go with a five or six, but a nine or ten is outta my league. Seven, eight? Get me all liquored up and we'll see.
     
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    I tell them during the first dinner
     
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    That could give a new spin on talking with your mouth full? :naughty:
     
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    I am at a point right now where all the women I meet are in the Vancouver Kink community. Therefore, the issues about when to tell someone is never an issue. It is actually nice as the issue that I deal with is finding someone with the same kinks as me (which isn't too hard). Things like fetlife make play life so much easier :)
     

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