Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Bird Person, Dec 19, 2008.
Your new partner about your freaky side
If I move fast the first night it comes out usually.
Whenever it comes up. Don't hide it, but don't push it.
start slow if they llike it just go for it
I think its usually part of the "getting to know you" phase before a relationship even starts for me. It doesn't mean you have to tell them in graphic detail about your kink but I'd just assume they know because vanilla is a deal breaker for me anyway.
Depends, sometimes it's out just talking with her, but it definately comes out in any play before we actually sleep togeather.
Wow, talk about Deja Vu. If you look half way down the first page, you will see your clone
Yeah go for gold!
She'll know well beforehand.
I tell them before I get into the relationship, because I'm not going to waste my time with someone who is into vanilla sex.
Early, and let them know on a scale from one to ten where you stand. I'd go with a five or six, but a nine or ten is outta my league. Seven, eight? Get me all liquored up and we'll see.
I tell them during the first dinner
That could give a new spin on talking with your mouth full?
I am at a point right now where all the women I meet are in the Vancouver Kink community. Therefore, the issues about when to tell someone is never an issue. It is actually nice as the issue that I deal with is finding someone with the same kinks as me (which isn't too hard). Things like fetlife make play life so much easier