How Long Have You Waited For Sex?

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  1. Jazzyb

    Jazzyb New Member

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    Hey, Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and we have yet to have sex, how long have you guy waited to ahve sex with your girlfriend?

    She is a virgin and i did bring up sex the other night for the first time, she said 'you know im still a virgin dont go rushing me!!' but if its gonna happen in the end whats with the delay tbh im not that bothered about it...well a bit, but im mainly curious on how long you guys have waited it out.

    thx Jazz
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    Took me about 7 months into first making out with my current GF, although we had only "offically" been going out abour 3 months.
     
  3. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    I typically wait like a month or 2. I'm in no rush if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen. Thing is you are also dealing with a virgin. I don't want to take anyone'se virginity at all.
     
  4. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    6 months. And yes she was a virgin.

    I had to take it step by step rounding the bases.
    I rounded 1st base on our first date.
    Second base took a few weeks.

    What took the longest was getting into her pants.
    It went from wanting to simply see it. Then to petting on the outside.
    To being with her in her underwear. To finally rounding third and getting a finger in there. This took me about 4 months with this girl.

    After I got her used to me being down there. After 6 long months of finessing it, I finally hit it.

    I just took it step by step.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    It was about a year for me and my first gff, and we were both virgins.

    And if you're starting to get impatient, you need to end the relationship. It's not fair to her if you can't wait until she's ready, and rushing her into something she isn't ready for would make the experience much less enjoyable for her, and possibly you.

    You could start to resent her for it, which could lead to conflict, or you trying to punish her in some way.

    If it's really starting to bother you, end it, and find someone wthat will be more compatible with you sexually.
     
  6. lauren

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    9 months for the first, 6 for the second....the waiting period has lessened over time as my views of sex changed. :hsd:
     
  7. low20

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    first true gf was like 5 yrs and we neevr did it...then next real gf was like 5 months.
     
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    We have waited 6 months before we broke each others' virginities. :)
     
  9. Boogieman117

    Boogieman117 PSN: Boogieman117

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    OakleyTodd New Member

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    Doesnt anyone listen to Tom Lykis?

    Three date rule!
     
  11. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I wish more guys would do things like this. Not that I would want to wait 6 months but it's much nicer to gradually build up to it as opposed to the guys who just want to dive right in immediately.
     
  12. Zaffir

    Zaffir OT Supporter

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    How did you bring it up? Did you say "Hey baby when are you gonna hop on the balogna pony?" Or did you approach sex as something you want to do and experience with her?

    If sex is important to you let her know. Assuming you're approaching the subject right- if she feels pressured about it, she's too immature for sex. Dump her and move on.
     
  13. NeLLe

    NeLLe New Member

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    Ha...it took me 2 weeks. I was a virgin & was sick of being one. I was 18 & I found a freaking hawt guy seuduced (sp?) him...thinking I'd never see him again cus of how freaking hot he was.

    This Halloween will be our 2 year anniversary. :)
     
  14. MattThom01

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    How much better was it the first time you two had meaningful sex than when you had sex just to have sex?

    I'm guessing a lot better.
     
  15. DSAzeppelin

    DSAzeppelin New Member

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    I hate Tom Lykis....however...he is pretty dang smart about SOME things. Not the 3 day rule IMO.




    For me it took us 5 months of knowing the girl and being "official" with her for 3 months.
     
  16. Guardfather

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    About 6 months for the first.
     
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    Waited 3 months and then broke up, wasnt all that into her

    Another one waited 2 weeks.

    (both virgins)
     
  18. chica&buddies

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    :rofl: i can relate...

    7 years would have to be the longest. yes, he was a virgin.
     
  19. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    Guys will go as far as you let them go.

    If you give it up the first night, he will likely go for it.

    How far the night goes is up to the woman. The guy only has control of how he influences the woman.
     
  20. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I've never slept with anyone anywhere near that soon. I just wish guys in general wouldn't be in such a hurry to rush through things, it just ruins it and is a total turn off. It gets annoying when the guy just keeps trying to go farther and can't just enjoy the time for what it is. I miss the days of just making out with a guy without him trying to get all gropey right away :hs:
     
  21. SeaMack99

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  22. BrokenHalo

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    depends on how old you are

    i lost my virginity at 14. it took us probably 8 months to do that. (and no, i'm not proud of losing it that early)

    in other previous relationships it took anywhere from a week (when i was a horny teenager) to about 6 months or so.

    it also depends on how mature you are and how mature your partner is.

    but whatever you do, don't make her feel rushed. it'll happen naturally. until then, busy yourself with your hand.

    if you want to make things move quicker, be extra romantic, do romantic (re: sex inducing) things. good luck to you.
     
  23. StealingBread

    StealingBread New Member

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    I waited 8 months. Mainly cause we didn't want to ruin our relationship, but I don't think it did. We've been together for almost a year now :]

    I can understand not wanting to be rushed...
     
  24. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    I have waited almost 21 years (my age). Im still a virgin and so is my bf and the bf is ok with no sexing so I'll keep waiting. Just not ready for the ramifications of sex.
     
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    ya i listen to dad lol :bowdown:
     

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