How long do you wait before being intimate with a girl?

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  1. Ivandrago

    Ivandrago I must break you.

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    Lets say you really like the girl, there's potential there, in other words, not just a one night stand. You've dated for 4 weeks or so and decided to be exclusive. And she says she wants to take it slow. How long would you typically wait, and how'd you bring it up? :hsd: :o
     
  2. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    talk to her about it

    fool around a bit see how she responds to it. If she would rather take it slow, ask her why or what her concerns are, and go from there

    if you want sex and you two are intimate in other ways, initiate it. because maybe she wants it at that time, but doesn't know how to go about it
     
  3. Uglybob69

    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    Don't wait really. Make out with her, get her super turned on and just move slow and watch her body language ect. to see if you're on the right track.

    You'd be surprised how quickly a girl wants to have sex with you if you're good at getting her randy!
     
  4. Ivandrago

    Ivandrago I must break you.

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    We already go to that point, then she wanted to...stop. :o
     
  5. OneTonGoldfish

    OneTonGoldfish Active Member

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    what is this "waiting"? for me, by the end of the first date i start by kissing then it leads to sex 99% of the time.....not a real good way to start a serious relationship though.
     
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    OneTonGoldfish Active Member

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    while making out rub the inside of her thighs almost up to her crotch and when she starts getting hot make your way down and tell her you want to taste her....for me the subborn ones always seem to give in to oral, then of course its like if you give a mouse a cookie hes gonna want some milk...thats when you f@#K the shyt out of her
     
  7. Ivandrago

    Ivandrago I must break you.

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    Hah..thanks for the detailed instructions. I appreciate the tutorial, but know HOW it's done. ;) It's just this one...she wanted to stop when we were close to it :o
     
  8. OneTonGoldfish

    OneTonGoldfish Active Member

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    well it sounds like either she has morals and wants to get to know you better or she just isnt that attracted to you.

    if you want to start a relationship with her then this is the best thing that could have happened unless its because she isnt attracted but assuming its for morals then thats awesome. do you really want to get serious with a chick that gives it up right away....it always makes me wonder how many other guys shes done this with
     
  9. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    i dont recommend talking about it
     
  10. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    real men don't wait, they rape and spit.
     
  11. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    As a young man, I once waited 3 months, which I now realize was completely unnecessary.

    Generally, we get sexual very early on. I'd say its usually within 2 weeks for me.
     
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    ages?
     
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    either talk to her about it or just wait and see how things go
     
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    calisteph6 Active Member

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    Just the tip...works every time.
     
  15. AlohaRacing

    AlohaRacing Freak that bitch out

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    I don't have a set schedule. With the current one, we've been hanging out for 2.5 weeks and nothing yet. Just makin' out. I've done the 1 night as well as the 3 month thing. It just depends. Both turned into relationships that didn't work out.
     
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    damn lauren... :bowdown:


    you have learned so quickly !
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    As long as you feel like waiting. No more, no less.
     
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    MB300E87 Active Member

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    then give it one more chance. if she does this again and thats not what you want, just get out. theres other chicks out there.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    this is one of those damn questions.. u don't have to wait, and u don't have to rape in order to not wait. you also should not try to convince her to do it logically - whatever u do - don't do that.
     
  20. tshizzle

    tshizzle :cleveland:

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    i waited ~6 weeks or so with current SO...

    you know if shes worth waiting for pretty quickly into a relationship IMO. if you are balls deep in her by like date 2, shes probably had many black cocks inside of her before you
     
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    or she's had 10 boyfriends and made them all wait 6 weeks ;)
     
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    tshizzle :cleveland:

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    :noes: :o
     
  23. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    troof
     
  24. krs1

    krs1 Do you know how fast you were going?...How fast yo

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    took it slow with my gf...we both wanted to and im soo glad i did because our relationship is so much more than sex and i think thats the way it should be! (even though the sex is just absolutely amazing!)
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    how fast i do it has no effect on my relationships

    waited 1 year with a girl i never felt anything for

    waited 1 day with a girl i fell in love with

    it is not even a slightly significant factor.
     

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