How high are your standards?

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  1. Fox800

    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    When it comes to dating/hooking up?

    I'm pretty selective when I'm picking someone to date...this means I'm usually single and don't click well with a lot of girls.

    However in the past my hook-up standards have been shamefully low :rofl: lots of ass but it's mediocre or like a moped...fun to ride until your friends catch you. A lot of "hey man got pics of that chick?" "No...she doesn't have Facebook."

    So lately I've been raising the bar so to speak when it comes to hitting on girls...self-esteem FTW but less ass FTL :wtc:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    When I used to just date around and hookup I honestly don't think the guys were ugly. I still dated with pretty high standards, even if it was just for hooking up.
     
  3. Fox800

    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    High sex drive and giving in easily FTL.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Meh, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm also a woman, I've known a lot of guys who just like you were not picky when it came to ass :mamoru:
     
  5. teep

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    it's weird. i have a buddy that's been with the hottest girls, but is just as happy taking home the fatty from the bar
     
  6. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    depends how long its been since ive gotten laid/since last relationship. but overall I don't care as long as the girl has some sort of personality.
     
  7. 1979TA

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    I used to be like that :hsugh:
     
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    im extremely picky both phsycial appearance as wel as how they are on the inside
     
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    i've foudn myself more and more picky about things that matter more in the long term than short term.. like education, employment, motivation, etc.
     
  10. coldstone

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    Who's gonna say they have low standards?

    Ok, besides 1979TA...
     
  11. Fox800

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    Its OK to be honest. :)
     
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    In the exosphere and beyond.

    I know I don't deserve to have those kind of standards (I've been told I resemble Paul Bettany and/or Seth Green), but I refuse to settle (it's the worst thing a person can do). My pickiness tends to leave me single indefinitely, but at least I'm not with someone I detest. :wiggle:
     
  13. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Not particulary high in appearance for long term things. It's down the list for me. But I value intellect, education, attitude, things like that as the most important.

    Random hookups purely physical.
     
  14. Fox800

    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    My nga :wavey:

    My relationship cycle: meet girl, click, have great sex, date for 2-5 months, get bored, pick apart her flaws, find a reason to dump her.

    Been single for 2+ years now.
     
  15. coldstone

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    Yeah but most people aren't. And amongst those who are, some are delusional. :o

    I've heard a 24yo mother of 4 kids (with 4 different dads) say she has standards. LOL
     
  16. Fox800

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    Sounds like her standards are...flexible.
     
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    :mamoru:
     
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    I've found that even with a random hookup if I'm not mentally attracted to the chick I have problems getting off. :dunno:
     
  19. wolfskymoon

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    I might be ugly my self, but below 7 is just not worth it, might as well be alone and miserable for the rest of my life. I am not shallow or anything, but mating preference is something totally different from social affairs and interaction. Personality has to do with it too, In the past I have found myself attracted to girls who I did not find attractive at first, just because of how they acted and reacted to things. A 7 can easily turn to a 9 with a few smiles and positive attitude. But if you are a total mess,then you have brought it on yourself.
     
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    I wont date a heavy chick, just cant get physical attracted to them
    Im the same way, pretty hard to get off on random hookups, im more of a relationship person
     
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    i have very specific standards, wouldn't call them high tho....

    the hot model type guy is not my goal for hook ups and the cutesy romantic type is not my goal for dating
     
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    i have more standards for personality than looks, but then i think my standards for looks are too high for my level of social skill/game:rofl:

    single for a year :wiggle:


    i lose interest in girls really fast :o
     
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    No fat chicks!
     
  24. kiri

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    i mean, i would rather be single than be with someone i'm not interested in, so i guess that's selective?
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

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    I don't think of my standards as being "high" because that indicates I think people that aren't compatible with me are "low" somehow, which simply isn't the case. I am particulary picky about a number of qualities, however, which leads me to being very selective (perhaps too much so).

    That being said, I always tend to date people that don't fit all my qualifications and that doesn't seem to be working for me. I've tried adjusting my wants/needs, but that only seems to work to a certain extent. It is starting to look to me like I need to just be single until I find someone who actually fits the description- even if that means I'm single for a long time.
     

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