MIL How hard is it to have a GF while in the Marines?

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  1. Casino

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    I'm in college now. Say I do PLC and become an active duty officer in the Marines when I graduate college. I've heard bad stories about people having a GF while in the military, so how hard is it really? I don't want to start a relationship only to have it fucked up later.
     
  2. Jbeanz

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    Depends if she lives with you , as an O you'll most likely get BAH so you will have your own place and not live on base and can live with you. If she stays in your home town it will be alot harder to pull off. Plus your going to have lots of times you go away for couple days to a couple weeks or deployments.
     
  3. The Militant

    The Militant THE FUTURE

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    if she lives with you on base you'll be ok as long as your not deployed from what im told

    if not then your fucked.
    before I left my drill sergeant told me
    use a quarter, save a marriage.

    just make sure you call home with a time and date of your return
     
  4. mikeflys1

    mikeflys1 New Member

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    Not hard if you dont mind her being a few other guys' gf as well.
     
  5. usmcdevil

    usmcdevil wouldnt you like to know

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    yeah once in the fleet its easy but they have to put up with all the time away
     
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    Drunk Bastard Audio New Member

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    Son, if the Corps wanted you to have a girlfriend, they would issue you one in your seabag.
     
  7. EYOB

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    You can easily have a GF in the USMC, just as long as you don't mind her getting fucked by the USMC. :hs:
     
  8. Virtualmikey

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    It's easy to have a GF in the Marines, especially if she's one from your hometown.

    I had one for about 9 months into my enlistment, and it worked great, she was only fucking 2 dudes behind my back. I finally found out about it when her best friend called me and felt so bad she told me about it.

    Save yourself a lot of stress and heartache. Don't go in to the Marines with a girlfriend in tow. She's going to fuck around.
     
  9. EBK

    EBK Hate hippies & hadjis

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    branch specific? FUCKING bullshit. your bitch will cheat on you in a second anyway. thats how women are
     
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    Wow, lots of bitterness. It really comes down to the individuals, you both need to be mature, if you're young, then I would say wait a while...
     
  11. luke2o9

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    It's really hard, I found it much easier to have multiple girlfriends, one just never seemed to be enough.
     
  12. widds2v

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    If you already have one, depends on how faithful you think she will be. Good luck finding a girlfriend though once you join up. It'll just be a piece of ass. No way to start a meaningful relationship when you have no more than 3 weeks in a row in a port at a time without going out.
     
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    Military and significant others do not mix well.
     
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    If there is anything I learned from the movie jarhead it is that Jody back home fucks everyones girls.
     
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    Being an SO of any active duty military person is tough. Most people have no idea what they are getting into, and lets be honest, most 20-somethings aren't mature enough to handle it.
     
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    cliffs of her cliffs:

    Jody will take care of your gf while you're away.
     
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    MOTHER FUCKING WERD.
     
  18. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    impossible.

    /thread
     
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    Just give me her phone # and address, I'll make sure she doesn't fuck other guys. ;)
     
  20. TRN

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    Tough.

    Much of it depends on the two of you though.

    Many relationships go astray once you get into it, but anything is possible.
     
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    :sadwavey: im in the same boat, dude. been dating this girl since sophmore year, (just graduated) and we've spoken about me joining the military, and by the way she talks.. eh whatever. im going in either way, with or without her :hsd:
     
  22. Virtualmikey

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    Let me let you in on a little secret. You are going in without her. She'll fuck around on you. I'd put my next check on it.
     
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    Ditto
     
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    Just end it...I leave in August and I ended a four year cause i knew she would never be faithful just by the way she talked.
     
  25. nsxrebel

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    I called dibbs already. ;) get in line bitch.
     

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