LGBT How do you tell if someone is BI I’m confused

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  1. marauder

    marauder New Member

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    I think a mate of mine is BI. I'm straight btw.
    I have nothing against that but I can’t tell for sure if he is or not.

    Now the reasons few mates of mine we had a heavy drinking season and went to sleep at his place one of my mates was in bed with him I was on the floor.
    He put a porn move on anyhow after a bit we had enough he seemed to want to watch be he didn’t I don’t think. So he turns it off we settle down to sleep and he goes I would suggest something but I know you guys aren’t into that.

    Another time at another place he started to play with the same mates hair I had been with when we stayed at his place. Needless to say he received a few punches that night.
    And that same night he started to like come on to me I pushed him away
    he seemed very clingy, I think he was faking that he had drunk a lot that he couldn’t walk properly because as soon as I shoved him away he seemed to walk fine.




    He only goes this way around us when he has a few drinks into him.
    Is he Bi or what
    I’m confused by his actions no one I know goes remotely like him when they have a few drinks in them even where there very drunk.
     
  2. dav4life

    dav4life Guest

    guys sleeping in the same bed at a party wouldnt be that wrong unless they are touchin eachother. porn...every guys looks at. if he is more into guys than girls. GAY!
     
  3. coma

    coma New Member

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    What aren't we into?:noes:
    :rofl: If that's not gay I don't know what is (well actually I do;) ...).
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    as long as the balls don't touch....it's cool yo. :mamoru:
     
  5. marauder

    marauder New Member

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    Nahh he would deny it, a few mates of mine have sorter said a bit they suspect to but he denied it straight away.

    Another thing to at the mates place where there were about 12 of us sleeping in the garage (this is where he started playing with one of my mates hair it was when it was dark no lights on) I think he might pulled another ones shirt up that was sleeping next to him but he was to out of it to know what was being done.

    I also know when most of them went for a swim in the pool (drunken swimming) they just left there underwear on welll latter in the pool he took his off.
    I think I should just watch myself around him when his had a few drinks:run:
     
  6. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    and yes, it sounds like he's gay or bi.
     
  7. marauder

    marauder New Member

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    I didn't mean anything by it :(

    Well I'm not used to a guy getting kinda clingy around me.
    I don't know about you but a guy coming up to hug me around the crotch doesn’t exactly put me a good mood.
     
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    You don't. You respect somebody's decision to tell other people.
     
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    :naughty: As long as he's hot!!
     
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    :rofl: :x:
     
  11. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I was just about to say that!
     
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    But what if I want our balls to touch :dunno:
     
  13. RyRy

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    Are you askin for a huggin?

    :hug:
     
  14. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Makes me feel wonderful! :naughty: :mamoru:
     
  15. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...then you go get yourself a gay or bi male. If you want to play with the str8 bois, then the balls simply cannot touch for rationalization purposes. :mamoru:
     
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    I meant our balls :wtc:
     
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    Does this count? :69:
     
  18. InsomniacV

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    to me it sounds like he's closeted. And if he goes skinny dipping it doesn't neccesary mean he's gay. he could just be that crazy wildboy type willing to do anything & everything cause life's short.

    if i were you (and straight), and one night we were drinking and he started getting clingy... i'd do something differently for just one night. Make a move, push him aside, rub up on his chest, move on real close, make eye contact, and in a low voice, ask him ... "what are you feeling"

    at this point he should be thinking 2 things

    1) what the hell, i didn't do anything wrong.. is he gonna beat me?
    2) what the hell is going on?!?!?!? i have no idea!!
    3) is he making a move on me?


    but to you, you'd probably think its making a move-move. like a MOVE, if you know what i mean Heh. but try not to think of it like that. its just a way of getting an answer. And whatever he does or says, then the answer should be clear. but remember by doing this, it puts YOU in charge. you have POWER. and he'll be intimidated, so anything you say, Goes. feel free to do anything.

    BUT if you wanna make it sound like your NOT making a move, just say "im kidding man.. you know me, im drunk" *laughs*. and back away

    but if your open minded then turn you can turn it into something more. life's short so experimenting a little won't hurt. and if you don't want your group of friends to know about you 2, then keep it discreet and secreted. approach him when he's in a room by himself or something. Or pull him aside, and lock the doors. let us know what happens :)
     
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  19. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Well ours can touch whenever you want. :naughty:
     
  20. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    is there any update from the original poster of this thread?

    It's over a month old.
     

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