how do you not come off as racist

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  1. BCIT

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    if you're not into a particular type of girl that is into you :o
     
  2. MattThom01

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    You simply tell her "you're not my type". It's not your problem if she can't deal with it, and chooses to call you racist to make the rejection easier on herself.
     
  3. KindlyCuddly

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    you won't come off as racist if you're not racist.
     
  4. ForgottenSpiral

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    You could try saying "I find fair skin attractive" instead of "WHITE POWER!"

    That usually does the trick for me.
     
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    why even bring that up?

    just tell her shes not your type. i prefer dark hair over blond hair. i prefer tall over short. it could be one of those reasons

    dont make it about race and she shouldnt either
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: I was mostly kidding with my post. If I'm not interested in a girl I don't give her a list of the reasons why. There are a plethora of ways to let someone know you aren't interested without bringing race into it.
     
  7. Toxica

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    Well if that type of girl asks you out, simply say "I'm sorry but I'm not interested". It's not like you're calling her racial slurs or anything.
     
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    I can just imagine how it played out...

    Girl: Did you find everything okay?
    Dude: Yeah.
    Girl: Do you have a Barnes and Nobles card?
    Dude: I DON'T DATE BLACK CHICKS!
    Girl: :ugh:
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    How would you turn her down if she was your ideal race but she was unattractive?

    Do it the same way.
     
  11. Falconer

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    seriously tho, if she's getting upset cuz you don't want date her and she's blaming it on race and calling you a racist, I bet I can guess the race :ugh:
     
  12. Falconer

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    wait, does that comment make me racist?
     
  13. BCIT

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    she's asian
     
  14. Falconer

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    :gtfo:

    Asian chicks don't care if you won't date them cuz you aren't into Asians.
     
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    true story: when i first met my husband, i said i would never date him cause he was asian (my judgement coming from all the other asians i had met in the previous 3 months and my assumption that we had very different upbringings and next to nothing in common with each other because of differences in race)

    so do you not want to date her because of her race, or because you are not attracted to her?
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Don't explain. Just say you don't want to date her.
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    <-----is not into Asians (never got the obsession that guys have for Asians) and is not racist.

    I can't imagine a scenario where it slips out.

    Girl: You wanna go out?
    Guy: *thinking to himself* don't say Asian, don't say asian...
    Girl: Well?
    Guy: Uh no thanks.
    Girl: Ah ok cool.
    Guy ASIAN ASIAN ASIAN OMFG ASIAN I SAID IT.
    Girl: :ugh:
     
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    well it's true, no? :mamoru:
     
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    Ha ha, well yeah, of course.

    I'm just talking physical traits in my case. For a guy who likes blonde hair a really big brown eyes, the whole Asian thing doesn't really match up with that very well.
     
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    But you can gaze elongly.
     
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    i thought you might want to run for office some day :confused:
     
  23. Falconer

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    I was drawing a conclusion based on demographic statistics :squint:

    Falconer 2024
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    I'm not charismatic enough to make it into the final rounds. The only way I could rise to power would be with a phenomenal PR team, or by force. But I'm not charismatic enough to get enough militant followers to take power by force, so I better get a good PR team.
     

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