How do you know......

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  1. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    how do you know when your relationship is over and done with? that she's completely over you?.......she told me two nights ago that she wants to end our relationship, but she came over the other night wanting to return something to me and we ended up sexing each other up....the next day she gives me a kiss and says goodbye, but is it really done with?:hsd:
     
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    breakup sex ftw!!
     
  3. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    what does ftw? stand for????
     
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    for the win
     
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    OMG and you're a 2001? wtf!
     
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    It means, like most girls, your "girl" is a confused cum dumpter like most.....let the drama begin!!!

    but good job on the sex
     
  7. mrchina

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    Uh, you really have to take a stand here and not let her string you along.

    First, if she dumped you, you shouldn't allow her to bang you when she feels like it.
     
  8. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    meaning to cut off all contact completely....forever eva eva eva....
    since she was the one to call it quits, even though I still want to make it work......:ugh:
     
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    wrong, bang her when you get the chance, just look at it differently.
     
  10. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    I was thinking the same thing......:rofl:
     
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    Exactly...Hit It and Quit It! Go out and find you one for the Night, Bnag it. Call
     
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    It's over in the sense you will likely never have a quality relationship that lasts the tribulations of time. HOWEVER, it's NOT over if you dig dealing with rapid cycling bi-polar style feelings from her in regards to "you all." She'll still sex you for a couple of weeks-month(s) but I'd not bother with trying to keep her as your SO. She has officially entered what you should consider cum dumpster status. I say this so you understand that further money/time/emotional/physical givings of yourself to her will NOT change her mind or help her decide definitively what to do. She's a friend, who you may fuck, whom you have a history with and that's it.

    Ain't that a bitch?
     
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    this guy speaks the truth.
     
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    females are emotions. she gets lonely at night when she probably used to call you and wants you back. She neglects all other issues of what went wrong and the such and her mind is focused on the fact she needs you. THen the next day she wakes up with a different emtoional mentality. It's a bitch I know.
     
  15. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    i can see this going in a cycle of neverending......we break up and then were together.......round and round..:wtc:
     
  16. BedBunny

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    just end it. she's stringing you along. if that's how you like being treated then continue with the on/off drama, but personally i think it's going to get old.
     
  17. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    she wanted to break up this past thursday.......didnt want to see me anymore, but then Friday night around midnight she calls me and we sex each other up (and the rest of the weekend) and spend the whole weekend having fun together after she said didnt want to see me anymore....go figure :hs:
     
  18. qwop

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    She's playing with you. Don't get into it. An ex of mine did the same with me and it fucked my head up big time.

    It'll take you a million times longer to get over her if you keep this shit up.
     
  19. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    :wtc: .....i guess there's no working things out between the two of us.
     
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    just think of her as a friend with benefits from now on. the relationship part is over if shes still going back and forth between breakup and gettin together.
     
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    I don't know the girl, so maybe I'm wrong - but all I can do is give you the benefit of advice from what happened to me and maybe something better will happen for you.

    I was seeing someone and we were both supposedly crazy about each other. It was highly complicated (and not entirely explained in part but it's too long to go in to) when we broke up.

    We were really close friends beforehand and she continued to run to me for support and love and attention. I read the signals incorrectly and thought we'd end up back on. We'd get close, the sex would happen and then it was back to, "Nothing's changed."

    We talk it through. I move away. I try and piece my life back together. The more I pull away, the more she gets back in touch with me. Call me weak but I let her. I ADORED this girl. I really thought she was the one for me - but in trying to get her back by giving her the care and attention she so obviously craves, I didn't do me any good at all.

    I went back and the sex went back on. And then off. Then the talking went off. And then on. And then off. And it all kept going around in a big stupid circle.

    And now it's still all fucked up. She tells me that if she sees me again, she'll kiss me - at least. Apparently she can't help herself and nobody has ever made her feel the way I do. Apparently, nobody has ever treated her with the respect and love I did.

    But not enough for her to want me back, evidently.

    I go back to where she lives soon. And I know we'll end up socialising for all sorts of reasons. And it'd be really easy for me to be weak. After all, I'm nuts about her. I think she'll try it on with me when we've had a bit to drink, just for the ego boost - just to see if she can still have me when she clicks her fingers. And just because I *want* her, it'll be hard to resist her.

    But I have to. Because she's just playing. It's just a game.

    So mate, don't do it. Don't get sucked in. Because if she's anything like the crazy ass girl my ex has turned out to be, it'll throw your life upside down. :( For the short term benefits of the sex, it's not worth the turmoil.
     
  22. krondo

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    IMO i think what you've got here is a case of severe labeling. Perhaps you guys are better as "seeing each other" but not as "dating". My brother did this once, i'm not so sure why anyone would do such a thing unless perhaps committment issues? I'm not for sure, the fact that you both are having fun now and spending a great deal of time together, i honestly think you could work it out but as for labeling yourselves, ditch the labels and just have fun man.
     

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