SRS How do you know when your girlfriend of 3 years is done with the relationship?

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  1. ///M Pilot

    ///M Pilot New Member

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    When there's 125 text messages and 20 hours spent on the phone in a 10 day period.

    That's how. :rofl:
     
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    im guessing these weren't to you? if so, that sucks. shes probably cheating.
     
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    sorry to hear man.

    do you know if she has someone else?
     
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    ///M Pilot New Member

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    Nope, definitely not to me.

    Probably cheating? I doubt it. Is her cheating imminent? Yup. I'm not fucking stupid. :big grin:
     
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    ///M Pilot New Member

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    She met some guy while she was at AF training.. claims that they're "just friends" b/c he's a priest of 9 years (who coincidentally told her that he would give up his vow of celibacy for her :rotfl:)

    They have "great conversations about bioethics related to the church" .. with respect to IVF, adoption, etc :rolleyes:

    I'm like.. yeah ok. She's been back since the 3rd of July and she's been on the phone with him every night for hours (most of those hours were accumulated while still living at my place); and she's going up to visit him tonight.

    I'm past being mad...the whole thing is just fucking laughable
     
  6. Asses Maximus

    Asses Maximus Guns don't kill people. People kill people. Guns d

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    She wouldnt be staying at my place when she got back.
     
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    dont date AF chicks.
     
  8. ///M Pilot

    ///M Pilot New Member

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    Yeah, well, she's moving out next week to relocate anyway.

    I just don't think I care anymore. I told her how I felt, I got upset about it, and that's what I get. Fuck it, she's done. :shrug:
     
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    She went AF after we got together. That's how she's paying for med school.

    I don't care about the AF shit. I care(d) about the disrespectful behavior.
     
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    sorry man
     
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    ///M Pilot New Member

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    Hey, I look at it this way...

    It's a hell of a relief. Now I don't have to worry about whether she gives a shit or not, or whether she wants things to work out (she's been sketchy since she got home). I'm done.

    It's not going to work out. I can sleep now.
     
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    ^^ congrats to you then
     
  13. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    Hey, sorry to hear man.. or congrats, whichever. Ever since joining this forum and reading all these stories, I've gotten alot more paranoid :(
     
  14. ///M Pilot

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    There's no need for paranoia.

    You have to remember, relationships either work out, or they don't. 99 times out of 100 on the internet you only hear about the bad times. There's no sense in losing massive amounts of sleep worrying about it not working out -- life goes on.

    During the tough times, a bit of anxiety is warranted. But a general paranoia about your relationship will almost certainly doom it.
     
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    haha. At least you're not letting her take you for a ride.
     
  16. maskednegator

    maskednegator Kosmonaut, best we've got...

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    i admire your attitude, but why haven't you bounced her ass out?
     
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    Thought I'd give her the benefit of the doubt for a bit.

    That's over. She's gone for the weekend, and is going to come back to her shit being on the doorstep with a sign next to it. And that's if I'm feeling nice.
     
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    we get around 5 breakup stories a week from a forum with 170,000 members, thats not too bad of a percentage. And only the bad stories get threads made about them.
     
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    :coolugh: :bigthumb:
     
  20. rtzcom

    rtzcom bon wons! fight slepa for life sone!~

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    congrats to all of us dropping the excess baggage
     
  21. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I think I read and commented on your previous thread about LDRs. I'm so sorry that it worked out like that but at least you're finding out instead of being faithful and loyal for a while and then finding out a year or two from now when you guy are engaged or even married. It sucks to lose someone you seriously feel like you could spend the rest of your life with, but it's better to find out as early as possible. Good luck with everything!
     
  22. ///M Pilot

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    Eh, no worries.

    The funny part is, she now realizes where I was coming from, and said she has cut off all ties with the guy to focus on our relationship.

    I don't really know how I feel about that, but I'm thinking it's time to just move on. Life's too short, and I don't want to deal with any bullshit in a relationship.
     
  23. Asses Maximus

    Asses Maximus Guns don't kill people. People kill people. Guns d

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    You only hear about 5. I wouldnt post my break up story here or anywhere.
     
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    Breakups are the best part of life.

    Not because breakups are fun. But because everything after that is a chance for a fucking fresh beginning.
    You just need to let go of the baggage.

    Give it a try.

    You have no idea how freeing it is to just stop for a moment, jettison the bags...and then step away from the warden.

    And keep walking. Don't look back. Nothing back there anyways.
     

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