How do you know when the relationship you are in is over?

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  1. Doc Love

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    [I have recently been watching the relationships I've been in and noticed a recurring pattern of how I am very good at seeing the first signs of the relationship being over. I notice trivial little things that later on become a bigger issue. How do you guys notice the beginning of the end of a relationship? Be it from yourself or your partner.]
     
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    First thing, she was suddenly saying things like "go ahead down to the bar and watch the Red Wings game"
    Hangup phone calls
    Finding $900 hidden in phone bills under the bed.

    All in the same week.
     
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    you two frustrate each other over petty things and blow them out of proportion.

    that's a pretty good sign.
     
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    I usually have the active thought "I'm going to look back on this and know it started to end right here" then I ignore it, chide myself for being so quick to think such things, and it ends a bit later (months or years) and at the end, I know looking back it really did start to decline at that point. (Yes I'm aware this may just be a self fulfilling prophecy)
    I find myself feeling either distant to the point where I find his presence irritating, and get depressed going to see him. I also generally start getting kind of jealous when I feel it ending, I want to blame external sources for the decline.
     
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    When trust is gone.
     
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    p.s. you are not Doc Love
     
  10. Doc Love

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    Thank you for stating the obvious.
     
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    That's fairly common in relationships. :ugh:
     
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    Why the brackets to disable thread preview? :ugh:
     
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    it can be over before then. you can trust a person and not be that interested in them.
     
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    both parties should be informed then that they arent dating exclusively then
     
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    what
     
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    if u are dating someone and not that interested in them

    a: u shouldnt be dating them

    b: u should let them know you arent dating exclusively


    thats what would be fair, but life isnt fair
     
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    ...meaning the exclusive relationship (which is what everyone else in this thread is talking about) is over.
     
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    no prob bob
     

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