i look at sex as two different things depending on what kind of relationship i am in. if a relationship is just a fling then to me its all about the pleasure and i want to do it all the time. same holds true for a serious relationship that just started. however when im a LTR i dont care about sex as much. i almost feel like i should but i dont. not in the pleasure department any way. here is what i mean. im more then contempt w. having sex 1-2 a week. i actually dont feel like doing it more then that on avrg (although if she initiates it i do not turn her down). if we do go more then a week or two w.o having sex i worry more about "why does she not care to" then "i really need to have sex". its almost like sex to me in a LTR becomes more of an emotional thing for me and not a i want to get laid event. when i tell my friends this they always think that im weird. how could you not want to have sex daily? what are you a girl? when you dont get any from your girl you worry more about the why then the fact that you are not busting your nut? am i alone in this? now im sure some girls will be but what about the guys? ill prepare myself for being called a pussy/fag/etc.... GO!