How do you feel about dating actors/actresses?

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  1. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Could you be in a relationship with someone who performed on stage or film and had to do love scenes and such with the opposite sex?

    It's just thier job and they don't take any pleasure in the act, but it still goes on. Consider rehearsals, where the scene is practiced over and over again.

    Could you sustain a relationship in which this was happening?
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    Would be hard for me to get over that, but probably doable. I think the harder part would be just having to compete with all the attention a movie star gets on a daily basis. It's hard enough keeping a normal woman interested in you... it's no wonder that so many big name actresses are on their third and fourth marriages.
     
  3. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Well, I'll elaborate some. My girlfriend is a theater major in college. She's doing a play where she is the love interest of two men. In one scene, one of the guys kisses her on the cheek and she pushes him away.

    Of course a kiss on the cheek isn't a big deal and certainly nothing to be mad about, however it got me thinking.

    How would I feel if it was more than that. Say a scene where she had to passionately kiss someone or god forbid a sex scene.
     
  4. Nev

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    Man up.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    As men, we respond more to cheating based on physcicality than based on emotion/relationships. However, if the situation were to ever occur, you would just have to remind yourself that she is not kissing the guy because she wants to, but because she has to. There is little to no emotion driving the kiss.

    This is one situation where "it meant nothing" is true.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Agreed. Its just difficult. I'm almost positive I couldn't be in the audience.
     
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    my personal policy is not to date anyone who lies for a living or is paid for their ability to convince people of something that isnt true.

    this includes actresses, lawyers, and politicians
     
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    A kiss here and there, I could deal with but love scenes, I could not deal with.

    I would also never date anyone famous/popular in any way, shape, or form because I am a very private person.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    These are good rules to follow... I probably should have considered that a year and a half ago heh.
     
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    wow...seems to be a wee bit extreme there...

    are you that confident in the person's ability to deceive you?

    or is it a fear that you could not perceive that you were being deceived?
     
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    why invite doubt? just best to avoid it completely
     
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    Uh yeah!

    I'm the one tapping it and even if she was giving it to someone else I figure spending her money would make up for it.:naughty:
     
  13. Nev

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    I want to be an actor. I'm pretty sure that I could do it and make it big :coold:
     
  14. Nev

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    can't. i'm too poor to go anywhere to do something about it.
     
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    Lindsay Loo ミ★ Mikel's POZ Partner ミ★

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    and stop being insecure. its not like the dude is fucking her on stage.


    and more than likely hes not fucking her off stage either :mamoru:
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: I don't think I would want to deal with them kissing others either, it would bother me too much.
     
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    Considering the fact that about 1 % of all actors/actresses are faithful, any meaningful relationship with them is probably wasted.

    That said, what guy wouldn't love to be "dating" Elisha Cuthbert, Jessica Alba, or Jennifer Love Hewitt??
     

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