How do you feel about being dependent?

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Dependent...Good or bad

Poll closed Jun 1, 2009.
  1. Guy over 30- Love Independent women

    2 vote(s)
    3.8%
  2. Guy under 30 - Love Independent women

    23 vote(s)
    44.2%
  3. Guy over 30 - Wish she wasn't so Independent

    1 vote(s)
    1.9%
  4. Guy under 30 - Wish she wasn't so Independent

    10 vote(s)
    19.2%
  5. Girl - Love being Independent

    7 vote(s)
    13.5%
  6. Girl -It would be nice to be a bit dependent..sometimes

    9 vote(s)
    17.3%
  1. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    I had to take care of a chore that I ask my husband to do 3 WEEKS ago, and then there is Dee who works on her own motorized toys.

    Guys: Do you sometimes wish your girl was a little more dependent on you?
    Girls: Are you happy you are so independent?
     
  2. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    I wish girls didnt fucking call me for every issue with their car. (girls != girlfriend)

    So yes, I wish they were more independent.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I love being independent. My fiance loves it too; he's definitely not the kind of guy that feeds his ego off of a girl worshiping and needing him for everything.
     
  4. RougeOgre

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    I more mean YOUR girl
     
  5. Decease

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    I would like mine to be more independent, but it's definitely good to have an even balance. Know when to get your own things done and know when to just do it yourself kinda thing.
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

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    Most women are too independent for my taste- my gf included.
     
  7. Decease

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    I don't know about that one, that's a highly debatable subject.
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    My ex was almost entirely dependent on me and it started to weigh me down after a while. Since then I've dated extremely independent women and I've started to realize that I prefer women who are more dependent. :hs:

    Edit: Although it depends on your definition of dependent. I'm talking about it more in the emotional/mental sense not in the physical/financial sense. I prefer a woman who goes to work and puts just as much work into a relationship as me. I'm just not particularly fond of women who want to live their own lives and all that nonsense. If I wanted to live my own life, I'd be single. I want a partner damnit. :mamoru: I like a woman who goes everywhere with me, but doesn't always take off on her own. That's how I am. :dunno:
     
  9. teep

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    i'll admit it.... i kind of get a kick out of it sometimes :o
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's cool man :hs: That's why he and I work so well.
     
  11. Decease

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    doesn't it just drag sometimes for you though, like can't she just ge her own shit done. type of thing.
     
  12. Nomad

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    :dunno:

    in most cases; i like the girl to do her own thing but i also like being with her a lot so idk


    edit - fuck it, i like being wanted around because i have a bunch of insecurities about myself :hs:
     
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    I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T!!!!
     
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    Fixed
     
  15. teep

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    yeah for sure. my last relationship i took care of the bills, made sure rent got in, made sure the place got cleaned up, fixed things that got broken.... that sucked. i don't mean dependent in that way. i just mean sometimes i enjoy the ego boost when a chick pines over you and gets all clingy. that gets old too though... i dunno. i go back and forth :hs:
     
  16. D7

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    Lucky! :) Its hard to find secure men :hs:
     
  17. NCS

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    i dont mind if my girl is emotionally dependent to a certain degree, but i need a degree of independence: day to day stuff is crossing the line. sure there are favors, but it doesnt go beyond that
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Tell me about it! He's independent as well but we both aren't independent to a fault. We still rely on each other for certain things, we just know we can do almost anything by ourselves :mamoru:
     
  19. Nomad

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    and i meant having a girl emotionaly dependant on me, i don't know much except building random furniture and hooking up computer networks other than that the chick is on her own
     
  20. Decease

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    haha you made it sound so angry when it wasn't :mamoru:
     
  21. Decease

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    That's why I was saying there needs to be a balance, one side out weighing the other too much will start to bug you, for me at least. There are different aspects in the relationship where it's good to be independent and dependent on.
     
  22. Falconer

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    who is over 30 in the vag?

    I like a moderate amount of independence... Super independent and mega-business-driven/career-oriented women are annoying, however. They're also usually feminist bitches. I expect to take higher precedence in my woman's life than her career, and that goes double once we're married.

    I'm 28.
     
  23. Falconer

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    I think I misinterpreted this thread.
     
  24. teep

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    i'm 22. feminism/independence to girls my age usually just means going out and getting drunk, going dancing with her girl friends, and sleeping around a lot :dunno:

    maybe that's just because of who i hang out with though.
     
  25. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    If a girl is dependent on me for something, odds are she is going to be disappointed very soon.
     

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