A friend of mine is asking for advice but I don't really know what to tell him. I've told him if he really cares about her that it'll pass and stop hurting. Basically though, he broke up with her because for fairly legit reasons (IMO) but a couple weeks later he realized his feelings for her were stronger than he first thought. Well he and her are now trying to work it out. However while he was broken up with her she... didn't sleep with someone else but almost did. Like she and the other dude were naked, in bed together and he had a condom on at one point. She swears up and down that nothing happened (I've talked to her, I believe her) but he still feels like crap. Basically what I've told him is that they were broken up. If it's anyone's fault it's his, he shouldn't broken up with her in the first place. And that if he truly loves and cares about her, he'll get over it.... eventually. I dunno really how to tell him to deal with it though... he's beating himself up pretty bad.