sigh..gonna keep this short as possible.. ex broke up with me last year october and it really fucked me up..met a new girl sometime in november and we decided to keep it on a friendly level but we had some good chemistry and what not..she's a great girl..so january we took it to the next level and made it official.. the problem is as of late, i dont think i want a relationship anymore..im still not really over my ex and its not fair to the new girl because i dont feel i can give her my all just yet..sometimes when she wants to see me, i jus want to be by myself or with my (male) friends ..shes a great girl as i said before, but i just dont want a relationship right now..i just want to work on myself and im tired of feeling guilty thinking about my ex when im with her ive been feeling like this from before but its really starting to get tiring. and i want to end it soon..problem is the girl is so obsessed with me, im so scared of breaking her heart..i really do care about her and i know this will will probly hurt her badly because she's been in some pretty shitty relationships before and was basically never happy.. i know what needs to be done, but i just want to know how.. how do i soften the blow.. i wanted to do it this week, but her birthday is saturday, that would have sucked.. cliffs: in a relationship right now, great girl, things are good. i just dont want a relationship right now...how do i end it.. halp!!