the guy can't finish? story: had sex with a girl after a semi long hiatus. i have had some history with her. we ended up hookin up after a tutoring session, and after the first round, she wanted round 2. probably a lil soon, cause i was able to get hard and perform, but i ended up getting soft. after some effort to restart the motor, we gave up. i felt emasculated, but did my best not to show it and just passed it off as we tried again too soon. she was able to orgasm for round 2, but i was not. what generally goes through your minds when something like that happens, women of the vag?