how do u women feel when....

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  1. TheMarchHare

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    the guy can't finish?


    story:

    had sex with a girl after a semi long hiatus. i have had some history with her. we ended up hookin up after a tutoring session, and after the first round, she wanted round 2. probably a lil soon, cause i was able to get hard and perform, but i ended up getting soft. after some effort to restart the motor, we gave up. i felt emasculated, but did my best not to show it and just passed it off as we tried again too soon. she was able to orgasm for round 2, but i was not.

    what generally goes through your minds when something like that happens, women of the vag?
     
  2. Falconer

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    You mean when you get a boner for round 2 but you can't finish no matter what?

    I've never had a woman care. Sometimes they feel bad that I can't cum. But they always know that with a little rest I'll be able to finish so it usually leads to yet another sex session :bigthumb: And usually that sex session is entirely for me, so I just get to powerbang her until I cum cuz I don't have to worry about her, especially if I made her cum already during the session in which I couldn't finish.
     
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    sounds about right. but that stint of trying to get the motor running again... that was unbearably embarrassing. she actually said "let's just stop, it burns..." then she had to leave. it's actually not THAT big a deal,

    but i'm new to the vaginarium and i like the idea of having a resource of people who have had more experience than i to help me with the little things that i wonder about cause i'll never know from the woman i failed on...
     
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    Oh, my friend, you have a lot to learn. :bowrofl:
     
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    lol am i missing something?
     
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    If it was the second round I wouldn't think anything of it.
     
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    vag isn't somewhere I'd go to get info from people with "experience"
     
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    just pm wolfskymoon directly if you want legit advice
     
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    :werd: guy is like a master of women and social logic.
     
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    after that thread bashin him in FN, i'm cool i think... :coolugh:
     
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    Round 2 doesn't bother me, it makes total sense.

    I do sort of feel weird if he can't get it up the first time and/or loses it before he can cum. I know sometimes there are flukes and guys just can't cum but it still makes me think "wtf am I doing wrong here?"
     
  12. Scythe

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    All women, if new with partner, will think it's their fault. If it's a habit, then it's something wrong with the guy (in their eyes).
     
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    Round 2 - it's cool, understandable. Round 1 I get very frustrated.
     
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    I'm bummed :dunno: but it's not the end of the world
     
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    im guessing generally the feeling would be similar to if the girl didnt cum (and admitted to it)

    EDIT: but not always, especially if its the second round.
     
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    Its not a big deal. The reality is that it happens sometimes (for either person).
     
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    I never had that happen during round 1 of sex. I've only had round 2 of sex maybe a handful of times and the guy was focused on getting me off and not worried about himself. So I wouldn't care if he didn't cum during the second round, since he already got off. First round I would think it's my fault, like I'm not doing a good job or something. I'd probably be bummed if it happened.
     
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    Eh, sometimes shit happens. Women who are a bit more experienced know that anything can happen when you're dealing with a penis! LOL, at least you made it through round 1 and if she didn't get off, you should have made the dive, honey!!! It's all good, don't worry about it, as time goes on you'll realize that this is going to be one of those things that fades from your memory.
     

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