My boyfriend proposed last december, but because we know my family doesnt fully feel we are ready, we've sort of been keeping it a secret. Most all our friends and family know we want to get married, but only a few know we have a date in mind. I havent booked the reception site yet, but I want to soon. However, I am wondering if it would better to tell my dad and his family before or after I book the place. My dad, aunt, and uncles have all met my fiance, and they like him fairly well, I'm just not sure how they would react if they knew we were getting married in 6 months. I want to be a polite and considerate as I can when telling them, I just dont exactly know how. Any advice?