how do i know if i'm getting hit on?

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  1. spankaveli

    spankaveli OT Supporter

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    i should start by saying i'm a fairly overweight fellow but over the course of the last 3 months, i've lost 40 pounds. i still find myself very far from attractive but it's been commented by a few females close to me that my confidence seems to have gone up. i guess this possibly could cause women to see me differently but i have no clue. i have, however, noticed an increase in attention.

    so how do i know? it doesn't matter much, anyway since i'm married but i am just curious. :hs:
     
  2. demosnat

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    Interesting question since your a male. Its easy for women to tell. (yesterday while walking to the bus some douchebag asked if he could take me out sometime, and got all pissy when I said I was attached)

    Women are more subtle (usually) but look for extensive eye contact, giggleing (sp) TOUCHING YOUR ARM, or otherwise touching you when they don't need to, acting nervous, etc.
     
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    Casually touching your arm/shoulder is a big one. So is laughing at your jokes (if they like you, all of your jokes are funny, if they don't then none of them are!)

    I've gotten this far, it's how to respond that still trips me up a lot :o

    Don't psych yourself out by thinking "she can't possibly be hitting on me"
     
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    razi New Member

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    eye contact, positive physical contact, and a smile are really the big three.

    if you ask for her number and she doesn't looked shocked is always a good thing too. :p
     
  5. spankaveli

    spankaveli OT Supporter

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    i don't think i'll be asking for any numbers :o
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'd hope not....married man.
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    Oh, dip. Missed that part :o
     
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    A dead give away is lipstick on your shirt tails.
     
  9. spankaveli

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    Exactly. :o
     
  10. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    it's funny cuz it's true :hs:
     

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