How do i get my girl friend to orgasm?

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  1. bmx2424

    bmx2424 Guest

    Ok, my girl friend and I have just started to get sexual and we are both new to it. I have tried fingering her and eating her out but i can't seem to give her an orgasm. Can anyone give me some tips or techniques on how I could give her and orgasm?
     
  2. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    practice... thats all you need to do... there is no "idiots guide to get an orgasm". practice and have fun.
     
  3. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    Correct.

    Communication is also important.
     
  4. ISO9002

    ISO9002 New Member

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    Just take your time. Try to explore which way or what will make each other feel good. Then continue explore and practice, you will discover new things ^^
     
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    weapon x 9 0 New Member

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    ask her what makes her feel good and what doesn't so you aren't bumbling around down there
     
  6. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    ^ All that advice is good. :bigthumb:

    For something to try, mine really gets off on being touched and massaged around her intimate areas, like a little up on the pelvic bone, or the tendons inside her thighs, or her buttocks...you get the idea.
     
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    Get your rythym down with your tongue when going down on her. It took me a while to master it, but it just clicked one day, and I've been golden ever since. Slow circles clockwise, and gently apply pressure with your tongue as you're between 6 and 9:00, and that should do the trick.

    Chef -> "Just find the Clitoris" ...... Good luck! :cool:
     
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  9. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    You might skim over the FAQ at the top of this sub-forum too....some anatomy and techniques in there you might enjoy! Most of all, have fun with it.
     
  10. Reign

    Reign Banned

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    G-spot > clitoris. My GF loves to squirt.
     
  11. CelesteLeSonne

    CelesteLeSonne DEWmocracy

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    i went thru that prob in the past. you can find good info on the internet.
    foreplay important. make sure there's bloodflow to the area, massage or rub the inner legs + butt. you could even stimulate the g-spot before trying to give her a clitoral orgasm. find out what she thinks feels best - just clitoral touching or other areas, amount of pressure,...
    due to the mental part of the female orgasm [at least in some chycks] make sure she's comfortable, knows that you love her [if you do - that's a big part for me], isn't worried or stressed about anything,...
    at least yr trying, not all people do.
    good luck
     
  12. shlibar

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    am or pm?
     
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    6 and 9 on an analogue clock are in the same place ;)
     
  14. quikkstylez

    quikkstylez i am not asian.

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