how do i change gf's views on abortion?

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  1. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    im scared that day might come where she accidentally got knocked up by me. she said no because she wouldn't kill a life, i told her its not really a life after a couple months. she said she would just feel really bad. any videos on youtube educating us on the subject?
     
  2. Hate Crime

    Hate Crime Don't Hate OT Supporter

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    Should have checked who started the thread before viewing.


    Quit with the GF threads biggie
     
  3. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    you probobly cant :dunno:
     
  4. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    pretend its someone else?
     
  5. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    You can't, and its not your place to try.
    Just don't get her preggers.
     
  6. Ford4Life

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    She sounds too good for you.
     
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    The kid would fuck up his life too. Shit happens, what happens if you are the 1 percent that gets fucked over.
     
  9. jesskasubercool

    jesskasubercool Jesska.

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    YOU don't understand what that can do on HER body and HER mind. when a woman gets pregnant so many things change in her body. My friend recently got pregnant and she said she just knew before she even took the test. She got an abortion. She can't even look at the baby section of a store and i've been with her just walking through the mall and she see's a new born and bursts into tears. YOU telling her what to do is not right. I understand it takes two to tango. but her getting an abortion could make it so she can't have kids in the future. it's such a hefty procedure that you actually get knocked out. Just wrap your dick, idiot.
     
  10. lick wid nit wit

    lick wid nit wit Official OT Oracle

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    :rofl: You really are a toolshed, aren't you?


    Bottom line: you can't. Just like she couldn't change your views on the subject. If your views on abortion are that important either get a vasectomy before fucking her or dump her.
     
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    JustaMeThang New Member

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    You can't and shouldn't want to.
     
  12. MattThom01

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    Couple of things. You won't be able to change her views on it, it is too deep of a value.

    Second, if you're THAT worried about getting her pregnant, you have two options...get her on BC, and use a condom EVERY time. Second option is to simply not have sex.
     
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    you can't
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Her views should make you really remember to wear a condom....Otherwise you're gonna be a daddy with a girl who somehow didn't get knocked up by those 50 other guys
     
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    SpectraRedZ New Member

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    Why try to make her change her mind? Its a waste of time. Its also her body. If you're so worried about it do what someone else said: stop having sex with her, or get her on BC and make sure you're protected as well.
     
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    explain to her a fetus is like an alien symbiote and its gonna turn her emo like peter parker in spiderman 3..

    but seriously, like everyone says you cant "change" her views, you can only offer your opinion and knowledge but once youve done that and she isnt budging, don't keep pushing. Just use two forms of BC and chances are itll never happen.
     
  17. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    My vote is to use protection
     
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    Wear condoms..., this practice will change her "views on abortion" because it would, at the very least, demonstrate to her that you're just as serious about it as she is.
     
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    Explain to her that your not ready for a kid and neither is she and that being said it wouldn't be fair to the baby to have a bad life because it's parents were to immature to raise it. If she will not budge on this subject and you know for sure you can't handle a kid then please leave her.
     
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    Take all precautions and you wont get her pregnant :dunno:
     
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    Just to show you a converse opinion... all women are different about the subject, so you have to figure out if she is this kind (above) or just uneducated about the procedure. There is a lot of info around, but it changes drastically based on who is giving it. For example, I was looking for possible complications for an abortion once, and I saw this site that said:

    Possible side effect:
    Death
    Hysterectomy
    Sterility
    Infection
    Pain for the rest of your life

    Um... christian organization much? They were totally ProLife, of course that's what they will say.

    Look at a ProChoice site and you will get this:

    Slight nausea
    Some swelling
    No sex for a week
    Some spotting

    So... moral of the story? WEAR A CONDOM.

    And if anyone is actually curious about abortions, PM me. I just had one last month. I have no problem with the baby sections of stores, every time I have a whole day to myself I'm happy that I don't have a baby. Not the right time for me at all.

    Also, I didn't know I was pregnant for 4 1/2 months, I kept getting my period. Please, be careful with birth control!

    Sorry for the novel...

    DA
     
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    You get a new girlfriend, that's how.
     
  23. autobahn

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    dump her?

    if the condom breaks, you're stuck with a baby.

    raw deal to me.

    Is she against BC too?
     
  24. autobahn

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    But, according to the prolife people, you're going to be depressed and damaged for life!!!! :mamoru:
     
  25. autobahn

    autobahn New Member

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    Also, it's 100% her decision to be against abortion. It's her body to make choices about.

    It's also 100% your decision to dump her ass.
     

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