How do I bag a girl I have NOTHING in common with?

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  1. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    I've always had a problem picking up women.
    Most of them come to me because they like who I am as a person.
    It's a lot easier for me having a deep convo then making a move.
    Drawbacks to this are that I have to settle most of the time. I want to be able to pick up the women I desire.

    So I'm 23, shes 18...
    I'm smart as hell, she can barely spell...
    She has like NO hobbies.
    a plant. I know.
    But I don't really like eccentric girls. I have plenty of that to go around.

    BUT... We just make that kind of eye contact.
    She also told me I'm cute.

    We stand next to eachother sometimes, desperate to talk and interact, but we have NOTHING to say to one another.

    I don't need "make a move" advice... I'm looking more for what ya'll think draws people like that together.
    I want more than to just hook up.
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i think he's just looking to have sex with her. if that's the case, just make up things that you do have in common with her, sound interested but not desperate, and use your regular game.
     
  3. kdizzle59

    kdizzle59 New Member

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    who cares if you dont have EVERYTHING in common, i am assuming there is something though. just get to know what she does, just because you think she doesnt have hobbies doesnt mean that it is true.
     
  4. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    yeah, as far as why I don't want to just hook up...

    I don't know, she just has a really positive attitude that happens to put me in a good mood.

    Could use someone like that....
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    see just because you dont have anything in common, she could still be a good person for you
     
  6. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    not every relationship has to be with someone you want to be with for the rest of your life. just beacuse you have nothing in common, doesn't mean you can't have a fling or a short relationship with the girl.
     
  7. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    WTF?? The OP sounds very conflicted.

    You want to "bag" a girl but you want more than just a "hook up"??

    So perhaps you should define bag.
     
  8. Chip Chipperson

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    he's saying she's a butterface. he needs a bag to put over her face for the duration of the relationship. Not really sure how it has anything to do with common interest :dunno:
     
  9. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    man, i just came home drunk and you make me have to look this up at urban dictionary.

    I checked, but i'll make you do the work too.






    though putting the bag over the head was the first definition. who knew. heheh
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why don't you just try and casually date her? That way you can get to actually know her and see if you have anything in common or not and if she's worth making your girlfriend...
     
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    theincredibL New Member

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    where im from, "bag a girl" means to pick up a chick.
     
  12. NCS

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    she told u ur cute? go take her to the movies and jsut start kissing her
     
  13. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Where I'm from, it means to hook up with one. But it doesn't matter, if the OP is too lazy to even read the 1000000 other threads in vag for advice, he deserves his frustration.
     
  14. fray

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    I don't see why you'd want to pick her up if you have nothing in common, and because you said this, which just sounds like you're going after what you don't want:
    (i.e. but she showed interest in me, so i'm settling on nothing in common, cuz she showed interest and I don't have to do anything, which is the same situation you just said you're usually stuck in.)
     
  15. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    ^^ damn, you got me kind of.

    To be more specific. all of our encounters are like once a week at work.
    She's very different than the usual girls that hit on me. I actually really like her. she just beat me to the punch.

    I'm more interested in how people that dont have much in common form bonds.

    like experiences or something...
     
  16. Placebo

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    Just talk about things that are going on right then with your life and around you.
     
  17. fray

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    Is she a girl you would've hit on?

    I think it's hard to form a bond if you don't have much in common. I guess it depends on if you want to be friends or not. Like if your gf is stupid, and you like to have intellectual conversations, there's going to be stuff you just can't do with her because it's over her head. Gotta figure out where the cutoff is for you - what's important.

    I'm sure you must have some things in common, even if it's just that your personalities sync up well and you care about one another, or something like that. Take her out. Talk to her. Find out for sure what you're basing things on. I think you can have a relationship with someone different, but then it has to be very much based on mutual caring for the other and probably wanting to get involved in the other person's life even if it's an area you don't really care about, otherwise you're living two separate lives.
     
  18. ozwald

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    lol i was talking to a girl friday night whos 23 but with a guy thats 17, she said they have nothing in common, but they i guess just have sex
     
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    Sorry that made me laugh :rofl:
     
  20. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Usually when someone uses that phrase with me, I reply with "Paper or plastic?"

    Plastic = pick up a chick
    Paper = Hit the sack/'hook up'

    :noes:
     
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    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    She's going to jail :eek3:
     
  22. Chris90210

    Chris90210 New Member

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    Maybe you do not know her well enough yet? Just start talking to her and see where things lead.
     
  23. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    yeah, that's all we pretty much can do.
     
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    if you share the same life goals and morals and whatnot, it could possibly work out. opposites almost balance each other out...
     
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    maybe its in Texas, the age of consent is 17 here :o
     

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