Sorry if there is a thread addressing this already. I can't search and couldn't find anything relevant. Reason I ask is because my behaviour is confusing me lately. I don't think I'm gay. I have no desires to do anything sexual with other men. But I do have a lot of female friends. In fact, I only have 2 male friends, the rest are females. And a lot of these girls are nothing more than friends and I dont intend to change that. Unless of course they make the first move. Were you always gay/bi, or was it a gradual progression from being straight to turning gay/bi? Share your stories please.