LGBT How did that even happen?!

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by asTTro boy, Jan 8, 2004.

  1. asTTro boy

    asTTro boy Guest

    For those of you who posted some wacky stuff in the experiences thread - I'm curious as hell how that happened.

    Like, how did you find the TS's? How did you end up making out with someone of your own gender - like what was going through your mind. And how did you end up at a rich gay party and what were they doing exactly?

    I've always been more curious about what led up to these things than what actually happens (that's why I don't like strip clubs - don't care to pay someone to dance for me - but I end up talking to them about who they are as a person and how they got there more than anything else - only been to them 3 times in my life and don't really plan to go back)

    Please tell - this interests the hell out of me :eek3:
     
  2. Filmboy44

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    Like I said, I was seeing a girl that was friends of thiers or they just liked her or something to that effected. They would always buy her shit, and get her drunk :naughtyd: So what were they doing exactly???? Well I try not to remember this shit. But they would have lines of coke on the glass counter and when the fun started the guys would strip down and spank each other. Then when it really kicked in they would start jerking each other off and would then move it to another room. They were always kissing each other, and would constantly try and make a move on me once or twice in the night. Never did I do any drugs and I never took any drink that I didn't pay for...who the fuck knows what they would put in it.

    One of the guys had a pink caddy that was all decked out with pink fur interior :greddy: with pink pillows all over the back seat. He was constantly asking me to go out and look at his car. And get this shit, I was always the big strong guy that just sat in the corner and watched whatever game was on the TV. Well next time we hung out they brought this big dude with them. So I started up a conversation with him because he looked as if he was having the same amount of fun as I was. So we were talking about working out and what not and I asked him his name and he said "buddy" just call me "buddy". :ugh: Then later on he asked me if I wanted to go "take a walk, to get outta here and get some fresh air and talk" After I looked at him for a second I realized he was hitting on me. So that was the last of that party scene for me.
     
  3. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Would you agree that men are very sexual beings?


    Add that fact with some alcohol and maybe some porn and, many times, if the guy is open-minded enough, stuff happens.
     
  4. asTTro boy

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    :rofl: sounds like my night everytime I go out. Not sure if there is a rainbow on my forehead or if it's the pouty lips, but men hit on me all the time - It doesn't even phase me anymore. I've honestly got more stares from men than women overall - certainly can take it's toll on one's ego. Now I just try to laugh it off and say things like "What was he even thinking? I'm not gay, but if I was - I'm WAY out of his league!" :rofl:
     
  5. asTTro boy

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    Yeah, we certainly are - it's the testosterone. We have to be, it's a survial instinct (not for us, but for our species as a whole).

    however... I think it takes a little more than being openminded to get it on with your buddy - even if there is porno and lot's of booze. I KNOW I've never been horney enough to even think about touching my friend's wang :eek3: - and I'm very openminded.

    So either I'm not gay at all, or my friends are ugly :rofl:
     
  6. Filmboy44

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    I agree 100%. It takes a lot more than just being open minded. I am a very open minded individual. I've talked about it with some of my closest friends and we all have the same feelings about it. I love my friends to death, like family and would never ever have any interest in taking it that way. I'm just not gay, plain and simple

    Now I used to have an aggressive approach to the gay community, but I realized hey how do they know if I'm gay or not, take a shot and find out. They don't hate on me for being straight so I'm not going to hate on them for being gay, they respect my boundries and we're good to go. I only get aggressive if they continue to come on to me and violate me in anyway by touching me...anywhere! Just like a girl doesn't like to be touched, I don't either.
     
  7. asTTro boy

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    hell yeah, been there - some people just don't f'in get it, not matter how many times you say it. Kinda makes me feel sorry for women b/c they get that crap all the time
     
  8. Biomechanoid

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    for me, I actively seek out TSs as I am finding that sexually, I preffer them, and emotionally, their just like every other girl I dated (well mostly, there's the usual emotional baggage associated with gender changes).

    as far as how I meet them, after stumbling through the usual porn sites, I found that yahoo profiles is actually a fairly decent way to find sites related to the TS/TV/TG/IS/CD dating scene. search for "transgendered" and you will find hundreds of people listed. (though meeting them through here is kinda wierd). I usually scan through the links in the profiles for any relevant dating sites. through this, I found two very useful ones:

    www.tgpersonals.com
    www.urnotalone.com

    the second is a legitimate personals ad site run through a pr0n site.

    though the biggest problem that I'm finding is that most TSs in my area are escorts (if you want I can expand on the why), so actually dating one is like :ugh: I really DON'T want 27 STDs after a roll in the hay on the 3rd or 4th date.
     
  9. asTTro boy

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    I'll bite - expand away :wiggle:
     
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    pretend your a "normal" straight guy, but have just been curious about what it would be like to be with another man, but can't ever see yourself WITH a man at all. if this curiosity gets the better of you, you'd probably be much more comfortable hiring a transexual for a single night of exploration.

    there are MANY men like this from what I gather, and with rates averaging $300 an hour, it is a lucrative business. The whole process of changing genders is VERY expensive: new wardrobe, LOTS of makeup, electrolysis, breast augmentation, cheek/jaw reduction, adam's apple reduction, hip augmentation, collogen (misspelling) treatments in nose and lips, hormone replacement therapy, etc. that's just what I can think of off the top of my head, but I'm pretty sure there's lots more.

    from what I understand from the girls I talk to, your typical transformation (minus the final sexual reassignment surgery) costs them about $14k-$20k. that's a lot for someone who

    a) can't keep a job because of appearance (electrolysis requires you to let your beard/leg hairs grow out... would you like to work with a bearded lady?)

    b) have little support (statistically, most friends and family members regect transgendered people far more frequently than "normal" homosexuals )

    also, with most "escorts" averaging $1k-$2k a week, it is easy to see why an escort would continue to provide the services she does after all the aforementioned expenses are taken care of. Since an escort is being paid for "the time spend with her employer in public" anything that happens "afterwards" is considered two people having an intimate encounter. legally, it's easy to get away with this if the person pays the escort for their time before they go out to a club/bar/restaurant, and go back to a bedroom after a significant amount of time is spent with the other person (basically you're buying a date for the night and anything sexual that happens would have happened if you didn't pay for the date; at least in theory.)

    what's that leave me with?

    I'm in tampa, an area "known" for it's crossdressers in the florida TG scene, and with nearly all the pretty TSs I'm meeting turning out to be escorts who like the amount of money they get, and don't have to worry about not getting laid :hs:

    it's pretty damned frustrating if you ask me, and the "hot spots" in the tampa area being the "castle" (gothic club) "flirt" (lesbian bar) "valentines" (gay BOY bar). I'm kinda left sorting through a bunch of girls that leave you with a "meh" :sad2: face. but I'm always hoping :x:
     
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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

    you musta missed the tampa meet thread- there was a video of my goofy ass on the DDR machine.
     
  13. Canucker

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    Yeah, Never saw it. Dammit.

    (oh as too the rail gun, check this out http://www.powerlabs.org/gaussgun.htm)
     

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