how come some really hot girls are sluts?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I dated one girl who was really hot,but i found out she was a total slut. Another friend of mine in which i did sleep with to, i realized she is very slutty as well. I know it can work both way for guys and girls,but im talking about being excessive. These girls are knockouts and they willl sleep with many different people. It seems like their standards arnt high, and they are easy to get with. I though more hot chicks would want to play hard to get, or save themselves for a better man, which doesnt seem to be the case. Even thogh these arnt relationships, i just thought the better looking girls kinda respected themselves more.

    Not to say that average girls dont respect themselves,but better looking one get hit on alot more. I figured since this is the case,they can be selective of who these choose. Both girls by the way were young 19 and 20
     
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    19 and 20? well, there's your answer
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    so what u found out is that people find a lot of other people in their environment attractive

    these hot girls found out that a lot of the people around them were readily available, b/c every1 wants to fuck a hot girl

    since like anyone else they are attracted to lots of people in their environment, they went out and fucked.

    what is not to understand? it makes sense that a hot girl would be more confident and hook up with more people than an ugly girl
     
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    i guess he meant hot girls can be more selective?
     
  5. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    yeah but honestly? in reality i don't think it comes down to people being selective. take away societal judgment, and people would be getting it on rather frequently ... and the ones with lots of options, and better options, would be getting it on with more people.
     
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    yes because i have seen what some of these guys have going for them, and it is not great. i thoght they would select someone more respected. Im not that judgemental at all,but some of these dudes i know are complete dirtbags.
     
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    werd. they are hot, they can have whomever they want. so, they do.
     
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    alcohol frequently owns judgement among 19 and 20 year olds
     
  9. quamen

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    yep


    think we have the best response yet
     
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    They could still be insecure even though they're hot, and sleep around for attention or because their standards just aren't that high.
     
  11. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :werd:

    and they constantly have the opportunity to get that validation so they take it.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

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    This is simple. Gorgeous girls have no self esteem, so they slut around because sadly....it makes them feel special and/or needed.

    My word of advice....stop going for girls solely because they're beautiful
     
  13. BradUF

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    I still don't understand how being a slut would make someone feel special.
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    No. THat's something we say to make ourselves feel better about people who can get with whomever they please.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    There is something obviously empowering about the fact that you can get with whomever you want.

    I know what folks will say to that. "Sure, he'll fuck her ... but will he DATE her?"

    Yep. He will date her.

    As for guys who use the rhetoric of respect, a girl who fucks someone she is attracted to does not, I'm sorry to inform you, feel disrespected ... unless of course she is explicitly disrespected by one of the frat boys who "doesn't respect those sluts." :rolleyes: The self-deception is thick.
     
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    :werd:



    By the way, how are we defining "slutty"? Like "go to bed with whatever nasty thing that walks up to you in a bar" or "isn't lonely on the weekends"? Sometimes it's easy to use the first definition when the second is more appropriate if it's someone we can't get close to.
     
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    :dunno: IMO if they enjoy what they're doing and don't feel bad about it afterwards the only victim is the jealous loser who can't get in on it.
     
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    If you could bang 90% of the girls you encounter without having to do any "work", wouldn't you be having sex a lot?
     
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  20. BradUF

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    Because they can.
     
  21. quamen

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    guess so


    guess so but im pretty concerned these days with all the diseases and shit as well. I guess im to strict and when the last gf of 19 told me she has been with like 10 guys,that is kinda scary to me at that age,but maybe im wrong. I also hear when somone tells u how many people they are with, there is alot more. I would sleep with alot more people,im more paranoid about life changing effects that can happen,but is that rare then with use of protection?
     
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    some girls realize that you don't run out of sex in life, so they have as much as possible because it feels good. i don't see any harm in it as long as protection is used.

    chicks aren't sluts unless they're using sex to get something material, imo.
     
  23. quamen

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    hmm


    i can see both sides of this now.
     

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