i'm getting really really hung up on this guy. this ex to be exact. now i was never all that attatched to him, but then something happened (more details later maybe) that changed me, alot more than i thought. and now if i don't talk to him every day i get sad, and miss him. if i dont' see him for a week, i get weird and obsessive. and i'd love nothing more than to be able to tell him what he's doing to me, lay the blame for my insanity squarely at his feat. but of course, i know this is me. i understand that i can't fix this, i cant' make myself stop obsessing. he just got out of a serious relationship, and was really hurt. so whenever he shows me affection i have this feeling that it's just cause he's re-bounding or something, and i'm safe . wich is of course making me even more mental. how can i tell if he really cares about me, or if he's just trying to get over her? i would do anything for him, and it hurt like hell watching her hurt him. but i dont' think sacrificing my own wellbeing is a good idea. and unless i know what's in his head, i may be doing just that. please someone, anyone... just tell me what to look for, please!