FRK How can I tell if she is serious?

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  1. jellybeans95

    jellybeans95 New Member

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    So a friend of mine who's a lil' on the freaky side actually started hititng on me a month or so ago. I thought it was all jokes. We'd joke over IMs about it. Well then we were hanging out with some of her friends and she was groping my boobs and hugging me and kissing my neck. Later on before we left, she kissed me full on.

    But it seemed all joking/in fun. However now she's talking about doing more. Some things in the past she's talked about doing we've never actually done. I dunno if she's shy or not really bisexual but was just having fun.

    I really like this girl and I want to do stuff with her, if she's into it. How can I bring about the topic in a non-awkward way? How can I tell if she is serious?
     
  2. dmora

    dmora Guest

    are you a guy? A female?
    This should probably be in th vag.

    Let me defer to my friend NIKE,"Just do it"
     
  3. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    if she's already kiss you full on and has been laying the flirt on so strong, I say run with it and play around.
     
  4. s_ride

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    next time you hang out with her, guide her hand into your pants, then you'll know if she's serious.

    Dont forget details
     
  5. s_ride

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    that was a jackass response, here's a real one

    since you know she's already into you, i would just ask her. "want to come over/can i come over, and we have a little fun?" Those kind of questions work with hookup buddies, so dont feel awkward asking it.
     
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  7. Lowneon

    Lowneon Author of Illegal street racing for dummies.

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    Invite her somewhere for a few drinks. That will help the both of you unwind and relax alittle. Don't get silly drunk or anything like that. Just a few to help both of you get over your nervousness. It sounds like she is already into you. Just don't do anything neither of you are comfortable with. Otherwise you could end up loosing her as a friend as well.
     
  8. 12xalt

    12xalt petrolsexual

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    next time you are around her, since she's already kissed you, just grab her pull her to you and give her a big 'ol sexy lots of tongue kiss that lasts for a while and then when you let her go look in her eyes and ask her if she wants more
     
  9. jellybeans95

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    Oh I'm sorry...thought ya guys knew I was a girl...hee hee that's why it's here not the vag. That and the maturity level is higher here
     
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    I clued in when you referred to your boobs :naughty:

    Next time just have one or two drinks and do the playful act and then after a full on kiss keep going. If she pauses to giggle just say "don't stop" or "keep going" or "more" :)

    Or just run with any of the other suggestions mentioned.. just don't be afraid to show you're keen for some action :bigthumb:
     
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    12xalt petrolsexual

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    playfully as her if she's just being a tease
     
  12. DatacomGuy

    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    :werd: Nothing better then a passionate/sexy/sloppy kiss to get the hormones running..
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Call her bluff.

    Reciprocate and see what happens.
     
  14. SLKWrx

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    How close of friends are you two? Are you worried about introducing a new aspect into an already existing relationship? I have many female friends who will goof around by grabbing each other or kissing without actually being bi or gay.
     

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