So I used to work with this guy who is seven years older then me. Right off the bat, we connected and over a couple months I grew to have feelings for him. He seemed to also have feelings for me, but I wasn't sure about they way he felt. I lost a bet and took him out to dinner, and it was a good date, but he said the only reason he went on that certain day was because he had work early the next morning and wouldn't be able to go out with his friends to the bars. After he realized what he said he told me he wanted to hang out with me also. Couple days later we got to talking serious about issues that we would face if we continued seeing each other. 1. he lives with our boss 2. he doesn't want a gf. A month passed and he kept postponing the second date. (Never had time...) I told him to drop it since it seemed like he really didn't care about me. Since then, he was promoted and we didn't see each other for three months. He randomly started talking to me again, saying he wanted to hang out, and seemed interested this time. I went over to his apartment and we had a really good time. It seemed like he really had feelings for me. Turns out, he'd been dating another girl during the time we weren't talking, whom he says is psycho and wants him for his money. (he doesnt want a gf because he still wants to see other people at the same time) She found out that he had seen me and thought we were dating each other. Of course he told her we weren't. He then told me that she got mad and we couldn't see each other anymore. I told him "I thought she understood that you could date other people?" and he told me that he thought so, but she wouldn't let him. So now he says he still wants to see me (just as friends) and that there may be something serious with us in the future. I'm not sure what this all means, I don't know what he's thinking. I want some help to find out if he's messing with my mind. I want to know what I could do to show him that he's with the wrong girl. HELP!