She has been seeing this guy for not even 4 months, you can find more of the backstory here:http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3579296 Now, the month of Jan.....they break up 5 times, I am up late last night and she comes home about 1:30am ( she has been spending lots of time there and never home anymore ) and I ask what she is doing home, she says, well, i'm single again. I ask what happend now ( remember, they have broken up now at least 6 times in probably a 3.5 week time period )and she says she just wants to go to bed and maybe she will be more talkitive tomorrow. I'm up early today and she gets up, showers and comes out to the living room with her coat, I ask where she is going, and she says back over there, I ask her why, she says shes not ready to give up yet. * UGH * This guy is treating her like crap and she keeps going back to him as soon as he calls. I just don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions? Cliffs: Friend has been dating guy 4 months, they've broken up at 6 times in a months time period, he has some huge hangups, and as soon as he calls her she goes back to him.