FRK How can I have multiple Orgasms??

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  1. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    I'm a guy BTW, and I've found it extremely hard to have multiple orgasms. I've only had two of them 20mins apart once and that was to some porn...and the 2nd time was of course not as good as the 1st.

    Also, Whenever I orgasm the 1st time it all goes into that first shot so I'm always spent afterwards...and it doesn't matter how hot the girl is either. :squint:

    Should I just practice controlling my orgasm {easier said than done}, I know theirs a technique u can use to stop yourself and then control it but I've never practiced it...

    Opinions//Advice???

    THANKS! :)
     
  2. Jaccordan

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    :werd: i wish i could do it. I get so damn close sometime..... :rant:
     
  3. BrokenHalo

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    my other half tends to hold back sometimes so that he can go longer, but then he ends up just not being able to go at all. I'm trying to break him of that habit :spank:

    but I have a book that talks about tantric sex (sex without the exchange of sexual fluids... or something like that) but they suggest that when the guy is about to cum, that he presses on the spot between his balls and his ass and that will keep you from ejaculating, and make it easier to maintain an erection... all without losing the feeling of orgasm. They also suggest that you try it a few times while masturbating to get it just right. I believe that it just might work. Pressing on that area closes off that tube that I forget the name of that your sperm travels through. They also insist that this does no damage, your sperm is then released into the body (somehow, not sure) and your body uses it up, because protein is good for you.

    And if anyone wants to check up on this, the book is by Anne Hooper (the chick that does the Kama Sutra) its called Great Sex. Good book. :drool:
     
  4. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    You're supposed to do it by exercising your PC muscle so you can clench it and halt the ejaculation that way. Pressing on the perineum might work almost as well though, I haven't really tried it.
     
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    I was talking w/ my SO earlier today and she suggested I try it out.
    Pressing on the perineum works... but kind of akward :\
     
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    refractory period (time between orgasms) can differ with each person. i guess endurance, stamina and bodily control are the things you need to handle.
     
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    yeah i never said that the position you would have to take to put pressure there would be an easy one. but they say it really works and its actually health for you... although you are supposed to eventually climax because its not good to not do it... like any of you guys would go without :rolleyes:
     
  8. submissive1

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    comfort or pleasure.....which one to choose? :rofl:
     
  9. plat

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    refractory period is the time between ejaculations not orgasms
     
  10. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    The normal way semen and sperm are reabsorbed is a gradual process through the respective organs they're produced in. You have to be careful when "squeezing off" ejaculation because you risk having a retrograde ejaculation, where it forces itself backwards into your bladder.
     
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    Yes, but forcing sperm back into your bladder isn't cause for medical alarm. All it does is turns your pee cloudy for a little while.
     
  12. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    Would you still do it if you knew it caused prostate problems later in life?

    I wouldn't.


    Bottom line is squeezing it off isn't natural. Your body's trying really hard to deliver your seed and you're blocking the contractions from doing their job.
     
  13. xxxgames12

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    Multiple orgasms? That would definitly be nice.
     
  14. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I've always been a multiple. I don't know if it's a gay thing (NOVA??), but I can definitely have one orgasm (with/without a reach-around) and if they guy hasn't finished, keep going and come again soon thereafter. I don't know if my primarily being a bottom makes things different...

     

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