I've had numerous relationships in which a girls will tell me that they do not know me at all. They tell me that I never talk about myself, and they don't know what's going on in my life. In the same vein, I've gone out with girls and I let them talk and talk and talk. For some of these girls, I won't say two words about myself. How bad is this really? ..... actually, after typing this out.... my question doesn't really need to be answered. Discuss amongst yourselves, I guess.