Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by JohnJohnJohnson, Oct 31, 2007.
Does this jive with your experience?
i voted no, but not necesarily in that mean nasty way, but very hot people who are hot enough to get special treatment often wind up a little self centered and selfish. Its honestly more the people that kiss their asses fault then the person who doesn't realize they are getting off easy.
wtf is with attractive people who would actually argue that the world isnt an easier place when you are good looking, or that nobody minds giving you the perks you are used to from people who are doing you favors because they want to fuck you.
I honestly don't think I have any ugly friends, so I don't know.
studies have shown that people are perceived nicer, smarter, and more qualified when they are better looking.
it's not that they're nicer; you just perceive them that way because part of you is attracted to them and you try to justify it.
Has no correlation with my experiences.
Not only all of that...but good looking people attract other good looking people....and its almost like a secret code or club....we treat other good looking people better than normal looking ones...
Yeah its kinda shitty...but its the honest truth....most do end up snobbish (its more a woman trait than a man trait)...but you could probably say that ugly or average people carry a chip on their shoulders
Nope doesn't jive. IMO uglier people are nicer.
But you know...who am I to call someone ugly just because I wouldn't want that face?
I voted neutral.
I have attractive friends who are nice.
I have attractive friends who are shallow
I have notsogoodlooking friends who are nice.
I have notsogoodlooking friends who are shallow.
because they are.
pretty much even, but it depends on the level of good/bad looking
i voted no
There's other factors that come into play with this question.
For the people who say attractive people are nicer: How many ugly people are you actually friends with? What's the ratio of attractive:ugly people you are friends with?
Same goes for those of you who are saying ugly people are nicer.
I'm also positive that biases will come into play. If you are ugly you know it, and if you have had bad experiences with attractive people then chances are you could possibly have a chip on your shoulder.
If you're attractive, there's a possibility that you don't even want to know ugly people or give them the time of day to get to know them, so you just assume...
Too many factors.
I'd say I'm fairly attractive. I don't mean to brag, but still, On a scale of one to ten, I probably land around a 7 or maybe even an 8 with a little tweaking and work here and there.
And I fucking love ugly people. In fact, the more attractive people I know are shallow as hell and I can hardly stand that.
I was trying to think of a way to say this, but you did it for me.
That being said, the people I've known in my life that I know society would deem "hot" have literally almost always been more stuck up and/or less likely to do kind things for others. The more unattractive ones were much faster to do kind things, but maybe that's because they are hungry for attention of any kind? Does it mateer? Not really.
One day I'll see a pic of you!
It's not bragging, it is what it is.
I'd say I'm a 9. I'm very attractive and I have an exceptional personality. I come into contact with both attractive and ugly people, and I'm friends with both attractive people and ugly people as well. I don't have any chip on my shoulder of any sort, nor am I biased. There's good and bad of both kinds, and to me it's really a 50/50 split.
Actually I've met a lot of people that I expected to be bitches/jerks just because they were good looking, but turned out to be super nice. But I also know a lot of nice ugly people, I'm gonna go with neutral.
in all seriousness yes
Im smokin hot and Im the nicest person I know. Well...
The only person nicer than me, actually, is one of my girlfriends who is absolutely gorgeous.
I'd argue there's a reason studies show higher perceptions of niceness in hot people, but it's not because of bias, it's because it's true.
i don't think you'd win that argument.
Probably not. It doesn't help that I'm terrible at arguing.
Fat people are usually really nice.
it seems to me that people that have self esteem issues from not accepting themselves for who they are, tend to be very angry people. In the same respect there are both ugly/fat people that have accepted who they are and have come to agree with themselves that they can't/wont change and are generally nice. In my experience a lot of people are not happy with their image and who they are.