I would like to find a very attractive woman that has not been with a ton of guys. Every attractive woman I meet has one or more of the following characteristics: - Has been with a ton of guys - Is a huge flirt - Is an attention whore Now, I cannot criticize them for this, because honestly, if I was very desirable to women, I would probably also a) have been with a ton of women and b) be a huge flirt. Or maybe not. To me, being in a satisfying LTR is way better than hooking up with a ton of chicks. I know some here will disagree with the flirting thing (Yail), but to me, if you're satisfied in a relationship, you should not be flirting. I do not flirt when I have a gf (out of respect to her, and because I don't want to), and I want a girl who shares that belief. Part of the reason I don't want to hook up with a ton of chicks is because, when it comes time to married, I don't want my wife thinking "eww, I'm number 20 on his list" or whatever (yes, to all the players on this site, I've been with few enough women that I would consider 20 to be "a lot"). By the same token, I don't want to be number 20 for some chick, either. Why? Cuz that's gross. I will admit that the previous paragraph is most likely the product of my insecurity. For some reason, all the LTRs I've had have been with girls who are much higher than me on the looks scale. They could go get laid with no effort whatsoever. I do not have that ability, and so I need a gf who does not "sleep around" often. I just reread those last two sentences and realized how fucking pathetic that makes me sound, but rather than delete them, I'm going to leave them up here so Yail and co. can rip me a new one. I guess I want a gf who is attractive enough to have lots of options, but who doesn't choose to act on that ability. Does that make any sense? But it doesn't matter, because all the hot girls are already whores or huge flirts, and thus disqualified already. So in order to feel psychologicaly comfortable in a relationship, do I have to set my sights on less attractive females? omg is this why some guys date really unattractive women? Because they're easier to trust?