Horny 13 year olds WTF???

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  1. Whut?

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    My 12 y/o stepdaughter uses my computer to "do homework". Well, lately I have noticed that she has been becoming interested in masturbation, body issues, etc. This is perfectly normal I know. But In monitoring the websites she goes to, there's this one where young girls her age and older discuss topics relating to all aspects of female teenage life. The membership on this site is predominately teenage girls between the ages of 12 and early 20s.

    For the most part much of these discussions on the message board are normal but I cannot believe the number of girls ages 13 - 16 havnig sex!!! It boggles me to see just how advanced young people have become-or maybe always were, just that there was not much internet traffic about it when I was that age. Yes I was horny and could fuck a tree at that age but actually having sex wasn't really something I thought would happen at age 13/14/15...

    Many of these girls are talking about bjs, getting eaten out, having sex, kissing and playing around with other girls, threesomes, etc. They talk about how horny they always are and want to trade naughty pics with other girls, etc...

    Now, hopefully my stepdaughter makes all the right decisions. But I have to admit that reading all this stuff from other young teenage girls is kind of a turn on, not because of their age alone, but just reading their stories. I don't seek out teenage girls to have sex with or look for child porn or anything and I wouldn't even think of touching my stepdaughter but when I read some of this stuff, I wish I was aware of how many horny girls there was out there when I was that age. Maybe it was a good thing that I didn't for it may have caused alot of trouble for me. One girl who posted on the site is 13 and 5 months pregnant!! :noes:

    Is this normal? Are 13-15 year olds horny already? Are kids just becoming moer advanced because of the general maturity of society and acceptence of previously censored tv, radio, and the internet being part of life now?
     
  2. MrEous

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    imo...The age of innocence, or lack thereof, has definitely dropped.
    I'm not that old...but when I was 13 I wouldn't have contemplated sex, but at 15 I was.
     
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    sad but true. i wasnt sexually interested till 16 or so. i dont recall being sexual, or open about it in middle school.

    in fact, forsh year i had a guy ask me out and the idea of having to hold hands and what not scared the shit out of me. we talked on the phone a few times, but i backed out of ever actually meeting him outside of school (he was a jr, didnt have class with him)
     
  4. dscallaway69

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    Wow, that is just crazy. I have no idea if that was going on when I was that age. Granted I lost my virginity at 13 but it was to a older girl. Although the other night I ran into a girl I went to middle school with and she said I turned her down one night. We were like 12 or 13 and she said she went to kiss me and I said no. Granted I thought nothing of it, but she was like I wanted to fuck that night. It blew me away she was thinking about that and I wasn't
     
  5. RockChick

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    yeah, it was kinda weird back in high school to see 12/13 y old chicks dressed up lke paris hilton... standing in the corner, kissing and making out and shit...

    i once heard that one of the reasons for this... kids being sexually interested at a young age... is the water nowadays... cos lots of people are on BC pills. well, when you pee, hormones get into the water circle but cannot be filtered. so you drink the water, you cook with it and your kids do as well and thats why their puberty starts earlier.
     
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    Uhm.. touchign your self is one thing.. having sex stories and talking to people who do have sex is another thing..I would not let her go to that site anymore.. for the simple fact that there are sickos out there that are prob on that website and their is no way to tell the difference.. I would block the site ASAP not only that but if she continues to go to sites she should be be going to there should be some sort of punishment. She does not need to be talking to 13 y/os who are pregnant nor does she need to be reading sex stores that other people have..

    Not to Bash you or anything but thats where all this crap starts.. she is 12. she is not 15 or 16. She is not even alowed to be out past a certian time.. so unless you want to end up with a pregnant step daughter or one with some sort of STD then i would start talking to her now about this stuff..

    Im with Lauren about being 12 .. holding hands was a HUGE deal

    Makes me sick to think 13 year old girls are having sex.. YUCK!.
     
  7. Whut?

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    What!?!?!
     
  8. Whut?

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    I was thinking of talking to her but I don't have a VERY close relationship with her. I may just not leave the computer on anymore. The typr of homework she has does not generally require the computer. SOmetimes she needs to look up current events and what not but I may create another user domain with strict internet access. I do agree with you in that the more exposure she has to this stuff the more "Normal" it may seem to her even though she is 12. I just don't want her to rebel and go satisfy her curiosities elsewhere.
     
  9. RockChick

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    ummmm... pardon me?

    that was just something i heard... that the hormones (not only from humans, i just took that as an example) in the water cause an earlier puberty.
     
  10. Whut?

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    Oh. I guess I heven't seen that kind of research yet. I have also "heard" about hormones given to animals that we eat such as beef, chicken, etc...that makes girls develop sooner.
     
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    Well thent he momma needs to talk to her.. I think she needs to have a ferm grasp that sex is not for young people but for people who are older.. and where babies come from and all that jazz.. cant depend on the shcool system to teach them because look how many boys come on here and ask if they can get a girl pregnant.. and look how many girls come on here and think they might be pregnant.. :ugh:
     
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    I am just curious and I hate to ask this but what is this website. I am curious as to it's existence.
     
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    dot :rofl:

    Not many women use the internet. I don't see how there could be enough of them to form a message board.
     
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    riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. :squint:
     
  15. Whut?

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    I would disagree and say that the interenet is a medium where women can express themselves anonymously. SOme women still feel social pressures and feel they can't talk about ideas or personal issues outwardly to their parents/bfs, etc...
     
  16. Cerridwen

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    I was pregnant at 13. Then again.. it wasn't much by my choice.
    It DOES happen far more than you think it does! I'm assuming you have had 'the talk' with her? Also,make sure she has access to birth control,and that she can come to you or her mom (don't know if you are mom or dad sorry) at any time about anything!
    Personaly.. I'd take the computer away (or at least put a good parental filter on it). But I'm an overprotective mom.
     
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    Still dont think 13 year olds have any business having sex.. nor should they be on birthcontrol unless they have bad cycles.. nor should they be on a site that condones having sex and talking about..

    Its only natural for preteens to be exploring there bodies.. but NO ONE should see it other then themselves.. who ever is going to talk to your girl should be fully aware that it only takes once.. Im not saying you should scare her away from it but she really should wait..

    to be honest what business does a 13 year old girl being a parent.. or giving birth .. it puts both mom and baby in danger... YOU might not have experenced it but MOST young moms do.
     
  18. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    maybe you should just tell her mom and let her mom handle it, no offense but i would think she would be better equipped in this situation
     
  19. Cerridwen

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    I don't think 13 year olds have any business having sex either! Of COURSE she should wait! But I'd rather it be safe if they insist on doing so.

    Not going to comment on the parent thing.
     
  20. Asses Maximus

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    right...but what is this site's URL...
     
  21. Whut?

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    Her dad. My first concern is blocking or filtering access to the internet. Besides, she's reading this stuff yeah, but she doesn't go anywhere so I dont think she's doing much, just curious. It's really hard because we can deny access to the internet but she's gonna seek out answers elsewhere from her peers, who she will probably listen to more than us.
     
  22. dscallaway69

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    Thats what I want to know. I still want to see that it exists
     
  23. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    ok, im not following, she is your stepdaughter, what are you to her? just curious
    i dont know if blocking information is the right way to go about it, she is curious, its better that she learn about it on the internet.. than in a bedroom with some other kid, better yet learning about it from a parent (or adult) that she feels comfortable talking to
     
  24. PaZzEsCo

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    Yeah I was 16 when I first had sex but all it was was sex. I wasn't thinking about the foreplay aspect, like giving a guy head or him going down on me, to me that was still kinda icky. If I wasn't even thinking about that when I was 16 and now 13 year olds are thinking about that stuff it scares me about what age when I finally have kids they are going to be having sex.
     
  25. purplebeast

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    I played arround at that age with a female friend and a female cousin. Looking back at it, I realize it was a basically S&M and foot fetish. At the time I didnt quite realize what we were doing, but I did know we had to hide from our parents.

    As far as actually having sex tho. I dont think I was thinking about that until I was in my late 15's or early 16's.
     

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