So, I have been debating as to whether I should post this or not. Specifically because I am not fully sure what I am wanting to ask. Lovely and I are going to another Fetish Club Party this weekend. I am really looking forward to it, but not at the same time. We have decided that we are going to extend the amount of playing that we can do with others at this event. We learned last time that there was a lot of interest from others . Anyway, that sounds great, but I am a bit nervous. This nervousness stems from several things. Firstly, I have been only with Lovely since I was 16 and thus I do not really have experience in picking people up. Secondly, I tend to be rather flirtatious (as many of the lovely women here might attest to ) but I do not tend to be too forward and direct with my pursuits. This of course is for the obvious reason that I am married and thus am not really pursuing anyone. I noticed this evident last time we went. I was with a girl and chatting with her and although she was almost naked and stated that she was in to me, my instinct is to put my hand on her stomach and not anywhere else. I guess it has its benefits outside of this sort of situation. I tend to be rather respectful and do not push girls boundaries however, in this context it does not work. Finally (well there are more but I will leave it at this), the atmosphere at this place is different than your typical event. People are there having fun, half naked and know that others will show sexual interest in them. Thus a considerable amount of gropping and fondling is expected. In the end, I guess my questions that I pose to you is how should I react in this situation? What would be considered appropriate pushing of boundaries with someone? While there, should I just go up to people I am interested in and see what happens? How do I read what a girl wants or is comfortable with? I guess the most logical thing to do in that situation is ask, but that seems awkward to me. I dunno...as you can see by this rambling, I really am in a confused state and do not know what I want. Hopefully someone can help out or at least work it out of me as to what I am needing from the rest of the FS Family.