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  1. smitty06

    smitty06 New Member

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    is it just me or do you guys find hook ups pointless? the reason i ask this is there is this girl i like. i asked her out but she doesnt want a relationship however she said she wants to be friends with benefits or hook up buddies. when we kiss it feels so empty because there isnt any real emotion to back it up it is just simply a 'hook up'. i asked her why she doesnt want a relationship and she said its because she is young and just wants to have fun but i dont see the fun in this. is anyone else like me or am i weird?
     
  2. dew

    dew Banned

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    LOL his name is smitty06
     
  3. smitty06

    smitty06 New Member

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    o rly? :eek3:
     
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    antihero OT Supporter

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    "there is this girl i like." there is your problem... you are looking for more and not getting it... when all you are looking for is a little fun, then hookups are much more satisfying.

    get out now. you are going to make yourself miserable and probably end up doing something pathetic. When you eject, try to do it in a way that she can respect (dont beg or seem needy) but also dont make it an insult.
     
  5. Seto Kaiba

    Seto Kaiba Screw the rules I have money!

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    same, i dont see the point in making out with someone i have no feelings for. kissing just isn't that fun on its own :dunno:
     
  6. smitty06

    smitty06 New Member

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    im glad im not the only one that feels the same way. also i dont see the point of kissing someone who I have feelings for but doesnt have those same feelings for me. ah well...
     
  7. RoblesGT

    RoblesGT [Track Days: 19 ][Crashes: 1] [SuMo Days: 1 ][Cras OT Supporter

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    :rofl: :rofl:

    send her my way ... i'll help her have fun ... :naughty:
     
  8. Moonwalker

    Moonwalker fagulous

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    man im totally the same. being gay i have to deal with that crap every day. most guys dont want relationships, they just want to mess around. its really lame. relationships are so much better. good luck.
     
  9. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Hooking up can be fun, but if you do like someone and they don't feel the same way back and just want to have fun, it can be rather hollow.

    If your thing is relationships, just stick to them.
     
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    just get drunk and hook up with her. you wont care that it's meaningless. But if you want to save yourself some emotional rollercoastering then get out now. she's disrespecting you. Use her for what you want and drop her.
     
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    I agree... on cinco de mayo i was out at a bar with a couple buddies and some girl id hooked up with before (and didnt want to) was there as well. She kept throwing herself on me asking if Id dance and I just kept brushing her off. She sat on my lap on the way to drop her off even though I told her I didnt want to, then she asked me if I wanted her to come over later. I told her no, but she still did. I was asleep in my bed and the bitch comes and wakes me up wanting to hook up. She asked if she could get in bed with me and I told her "only if youre naked". She got in and tried to kiss me but I wouldnt kiss her at all... I told her to give me head, she did. Then I proceeded to PIITB and call it a night. Never kissed her, never talked to her, just got head, and stuck in her butt, then threw her out. Normally something like that would have been an awesome experience, but since I hated the bitch, it was more fun to just degrade her :rofl:
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    whole other world?
     
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    Brooklyn New Member

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    Your weird :rofl:
     
  15. NoXeN

    NoXeN You can find me up on one

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    90% of the time too many emotions get involved with these type of relationships and it messes everything up
     
  16. accordfreak93

    accordfreak93 Go Preds!

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :bowdown:

    to thread starter: shes a whore, fuck the bitch and get out.
     
  17. dank

    dank fuck yeah

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    :werd: if she wants fun, give her some. and then take it away.
     
  18. Werdna

    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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    hook up with other chicks and let her know about it...then she might get so jealous she'll want you all to herself meaning you'll get your relationship out of it...this is only way i can see it working out for you
     
  19. smitty06

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    i guess you guys are right. i feel kinda used by our little fling so i guess ill just take what i want and get out since she has toyed with me enough already. i never thought i would stoop this low but fuck it im over it.
     

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