SRS Holy crap I get tounge tied

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  1. Supernoma

    Supernoma servus publicae OT Supporter

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    I had the "lets be exclusive" conversation to the woman I'm seeing. I was trying to express myself but I was so woried about coming across wrong; I was almost at a total loss for words. Luckily, she understood me and I think she was mostly amused at my sheepish grasp for words.

    Good news is she feels the way I do as well... but I seem to have trouble expressing myself in verbal communication. Anyone have advice for good verbal communication? (Particularly in romantic relationships :o )
     
  2. jackofalltrades

    jackofalltrades New Member

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    practice makes perfect
     
  3. teo

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    It's like calling a person. Frame what you're going to say as though you expect to get their voicemail. Then, regardless of whether they pick up or not, you have what you're going to say in a neat little package and can deliver it as such. In person it's a bit more tricky, but the concept is the same. The hard part is not losing courage. The rest is gravy.
     

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