a girl messaged me semi-randomly yesterday morning on facebook, and we ended up having a flirtatious little chat on gmail. we talked a fair amount today as well. she is 9 years older than me (19 and 28) and she lives in Cambridge while I live in Vancouver. she's not exceptionally attractive (kinda fat) but i still would absolutely hit it. in the afternoon today i began to think that maybe this whole thing was a little.. unhealthy.. I was starting to actually get excited about talking to her! So i sent her an email explaining why i didn't think i should talk to her anymore. She sent me an email back saying that she too has an "internet crush" on me, and that she "completely changed [her] mind -- who says it has to stay on the on the internet." She included in her email 3 pictures of her, one of which shows her top half in what looks to be a bra. Then she sent another email giving the details of a trip to Vancouver she would be making because of school. She had mentioned it earlier chats, but in this email she gave me the exact dates. She also added, in that email, that she knew it was a long time but hinted at cyber sexing and "who knows." I'm totally conflicted because... one part of me realizes this is probably a very unhealthy thing to get into... but the other part of me is an 19 year old virgin who wants to try for any shot he might have, and wants 4 months of internet foreplay as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what should i do? sorry, i'm not gonna post pics of her.