Hitting on girls at the gym?

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  1. DC9

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    I work at the gym and there are a ton of girls there that are my age. I'm bad when it comes to women so I have no idae how I would approach girls who are at the gym working out. Anyone have any ideas?
     
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    What do you do at the gym?
     
  3. Ford4Life

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    My advice, don't. Most women HATE getting hit on at the gym when they are working out and all sweaty. If you must, I'd wouldn't do it while they are actually working out, go for it as they are leaving or entering.
     
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    front desk guy at my gym gets a decent amount of poon.. just talk to em as they come in
     
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    this.
     
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    Edited that for truth.

    I have a friend who works at Gold's and according to him, that's all employees do.
     
  7. DC9

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    My job is just to maintain the gym so I basically just walk around all day and clean.
     
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    Yeah, I've picked up women at grocery stores, Home Depot, and other various places. However, in my experience, women hate getting hit on at the gym and it happens to them a lot. This is the one place I have never hit on a woman...
     
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    I hate getting hit on at the gym. I abhor the people who see the gym as happy hour or social hour. I'm there to get my workout done and leave. There's a reason I workout with solely my ipod and never with girlfriends.
     
  10. Casino

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    Is there ever an opportunity though that you'd be OK with someone hitting on you? I work full time there so I spend much of my week there, it would be nice if I could meet some new people there.
     
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    Don't. They're more concerned about their workout and you hitting them up is just going to impede on whatever they're doing and bug the shit out of them (despite them secretly enjoying the attention).
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

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    So?

    That's not true, but even if it is - who cares?

    In your version of reality, there is still that 10% chance they will enjoy the interaction. It's no loss for him if the other 9/10 get pissy about it. Unless he is really concerned about "looking bad," or something like that.
     
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    dawt. women hate to be hit on while they are working out/sweating. you will be "the creepy guy at the gym" if you do this.
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

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    There are ways to get around this that are trivial. They just have to like you.

    You also don't have to "hit on" them, you can merely be talking to them and then things can "just happen" in that way they like to do.

    I don't have many notches on my belt. Had sex with a girl I met at the gym though :dunno:
     
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    Pass judgment on yourself for being "creepy" and you will be "creepy." It's an inner game issue. No one else agrees? Seems fuckin obvious
     
  16. Julius

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    feign cardiac arrest

    attempt to get said bitch to resuscitate you
     
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    I'll talk to people all the time at the gym including women. However I never approach a woman at the gym with the intention of blatantly hitting on her. If that makes any sense. :dunno:
     
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  19. chica&buddies

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    qft!

    my college gym was used strictly for social hour for most girls/guys. it's absolutely disgusting, imo. even tho it was free for me to use, i kept my gym membership instead of working out for free.

    when i'm at the gym, i'm there to workout. i actually prefer classes to lifting weights and/or using the equipment, so most of the classes i take are generally co-ed. the guys are nothing more than eye candy to me. :naughty:

    :o honestly? i've never been interested in broly men anyways.
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Exactly.

    The point is that every girl's different.

    It has nothing to do with the guy (necessarily), it just has to do with girls not feeling their prettiest when they're all hot and "gross" and sweaty. So just disqualify a lot, that's not so hard.
     
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    So do you go shopping for groceries thinking it's happy hour or social hour? Chances are you probably go to get your groceries. If you happen to meet someone there who finds you attractive and wants to ask you out are you going to be that appalled? My guess is no. Do you go grocery shopping with your girlfriends? My guess is no. This is what I don't understand. You never know when you might meet someone worthy of dating. Why are there supposed to be certain places "off-limits?" What if you never see that person again are you just supposed to chalk it up to, "oh well, if I had met that person in a bar or at the grocery store it could have been great, but since I met that person at the gym, it must not be my destiny to ever know that person?" That sounds ridiculous. People need to be more open about this shit....you will NEVER find someone if you only tell yourself where you (someone, not specifically you) allow people to ask you out or not; you will also miss out on a lot of fun and probably enjoyable life experiences
     
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    The only thing I find creepy is when I'm trying to buy a fucking coffee and the guy behind me goes "hey, how youu doin' ? not going to the gym today ?" and I don't remember seeing him before. If you're not going to approach them while in/entering/leaving, don't do it somewhere else and use your mutual gym as a conversation starter.
     
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    lol.
     
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    Well...when they're squatting (don't hit on girls that don't squat anyway) simply say "your form is a little off." And then proceed to correct them like this:
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    After that, remind her to keep her core and buttocks tight by patting her abs and grabbing her butt...and then say "Good. Very firm."
    If you haven't been hauled out of there by now... finish off by doing the 'old wipe the sweat with your shirt' technique.
    Remember with this technique, abs have to be tensed already before you lift your shirt to wipe your brow. Good luck.
     
  25. PcH

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    If you haven't been hauled out of there by now :rofl:

    I never hit on girls at the gym for reasons posted above. I don't think girls like being picked up at the gym. They like the attention, but just that IMO.
     

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