Hey Vag, so I told the girl I'm dating that I love her :)

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  1. Falconer

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    I figured I'd make a thread about this since there's been so much commotion over when you should tell the person. I'll probably delete this thread in a few days, but I just wanted to make it now.

    There had been a lot of comments like "omg you like me so much" in the past few weeks. This kind of stuff is always a predecessor to dropping an L bomb, in my experience. Anyway, we were in her bed and we had woken up a bit earlier and were cuddling/messing around/etc. I was like "just so you know, I'm totally falling in love with you." Her smile gets bigger and she's all "good." I laugh.

    Then a bit later, I rolled over with her so I was kind of on top of her, and I was like "wow, you had the biggest smile ever when I said I was falling in love with you. I think if I told you I loved you your head would've exploded." She laughed and said "well then you better not say it until you mean it."

    So a bit later, when the correct opportunity struck, I seized the moment:

    Me: I love you.
    Her: Shut up, no you don't!
    Me: Hmpf! Fine, then! :rofl:

    Then a few seconds pass...

    Her: Omg! :eek3: Say it again so I can say it back!
    Me: Baby, I love you.
    Her: I love you, too!

    (huge kiss)

    Her: You know I love you.
    Me: Yeah, I was pretty confident you'd say it back. Way to throw me for a loop, there. I should've just rolled over and went back to sleep.
    Her: Yeah right, we would've ended up in this situation again anyway.
    Me: Oh really?
    Her: *punch*


    So that's my story. We're like two months in for those who want a timeline.
     
  2. NaviQ200

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    Mazal Tov
     
  3. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    On a side note, I liked relationships much better before I learned about PUA.

    I liked believing that love was a special, magical thing between two people who were destined to be together, and not a chemical reaction that occurs because you did the right shit at the right time to sway the girl's emotions.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm not using (very much) game on this girl. I'm myself for the most part but I borrow a few concepts from PUA here and there. Basically I've just changed parts of myself that I feel were weakpoints in previous relationships. Most notably I'm more aware now when I'm being "needy" or whatever. I dunno.
     
  4. NaviQ200

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    i don't know what PUA stands for - but...

    i didn't mean to sound sarcastic. I'm new to vag, but I have noticed a bunch of ppl here don't believe "you're in love" only after 2 months. I would disagree with them, love is a combination of hormones and psychology, so if you've achieved that sort of chemistry with your SO only after 2 months, then sweet man! some ppl take a year to achieve that same chemistry because they don't want to trust easily, or they lack chemistry, and require a whole year to develop that chemistry together.
    It always feels good to hear the L-word back, so enjoy buddy!!
     
  5. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Good times. I look forward to having slightly awkward/goofy/sappy conversations like that. Until then my cat will have to do.























    Not sexually, you sick bastards.
     
  6. just tat

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    PUA?
    please explain.
     
  7. demosnat

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    Good for you falconer :)
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Pick Up Artist
     
  9. BlackIce72

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    Congratulations but I couldn't help but feel awkward reading that post.
     
  10. julia!

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    thats cute. :)
     
  11. calisteph6

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    Good for you!! Seriously, I'm really happy for you and it's nice to hear a good story in the vag for once. ;)
     
  12. Falconer

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    Pick Up Artist or Pick Up Arts, depending on the context.
     
  13. owenstar

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    Love is awesome....good luck to you both....
     
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  15. Falconer

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    Why? I was trying to relate the mood/environment.
     
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    Good for you man.

    But you've only been together 2 months. Sure it's love?
     
  17. Falconer

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    There's another thread to discuss this.
     
  18. BlackIce72

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    I know and as objectively cute and cool as it is I'm just being honest
     
  19. BlackIce72

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    Nope. Maybe for you then?

    edit: I am with someone
     
  20. Rich

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    Pics of girl?
     
  21. Falconer

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    No. But she's hot.
     
  22. Falconer

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    Oh come on, cutesy shit conveys the point so much better than "so I said I love her and she said it back /thread."
     
  23. Pringles

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    I felt awkward reading it too. I can't really say I'm jealous, I guess your just more outgoing and present your feelings different than myself :dunno: . It just seemed to childish to me, but to each his own.

    Congrats on doing it though, that takes balls.
     
  24. HuskiRuski

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    congrats man. good to hear things are going well for you
     
  25. Gotcha38

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    Congratulations! I've had my share of serious relationships, but only really fallen in love once. I'm a little jealous.
     

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