Here's some relationship advice for you young fuckers!

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  1. bigdamray

    bigdamray New Member

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    Here are a couple of things that I have learned about communicating with the opposite sex. In communication, one person has visual images in their mind of what they want to communicate. They auditorily try to express those images. The other person receives the auditory and then visual images appear in their mind. There are several places that breakdown can occur. I have found that in most cases the visual pictures are not the same. They are formed from your past experiences and everyone has different experiences. This breakdown sometimes occurs when people feel that their love is not being reciprocated. The thing is that we all have ways in which we want love to be shown to us. Just because we do not see what we want does not mean that the other person does not love us. It may just be that the other person does not know how we want our love to be shown. This isn't something that can just be picked up on. This is something that you must search for within yourself and once you figure out how like to see love and appreciation communicated to you, you then must explain this to the other person. To make a relationship work, one must not push the buttons that cause adverse reactions in the other person and one must try to show love and appreciation in a way that the other person finds pleasing. One must also work on self awareness and emotional intelligence so that if their partner does push buttons that spark an adverse reaction then that person will be better equipped at handling the situation and put a stop to conflict before it starts. It's taken me three marriages to figure this out. Yes, I'm a hard learner.
     
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    clomid ftl. :mamoru:, nah I agree and well said. everyone's reality is a product of their own interpretation, and shaped by their own experiences..
     
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    Very well said, Oh and I just upped the dose!!
     
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    This is really not what I expected at all. :rofl:




    what I expected:

    :rofl:
     
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    4cd-Air Rape seemed like the next logical step

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    great post, would read again
     
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    my advice is to not take any woman seriously, enjoy her pussy, get a plethora of other pussy, UNTIL, one comes along that fits every standard of yours, knows you in and out, and LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, and is truly accepting of your every flaw and knows your past and still shows that she wants to be with you. and you are ready for a relationship. by ready i mean financially too.
     
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    4cd-Air Rape seemed like the next logical step

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    this thread is full of off cycle talk and good advices
     
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    Anthony Robbins has a CD on emotional intelligence and learning about what you feel actually means. It's good stuff.

    i.e. angry = someone violated a value of yours
    disappointed = something you find important isn't being fulfilled

    And then instead of just staying in that state, what you are supposed to do about it.

    i.e. angry = realize there's a reason for this, communicate to the other person they violated something you find important

    If someone has a host I can upload it.
     
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    BTW if Ray came up to me in a gym and started talking to me about something like this... I think I'd be dumbstruck. This is what I'd expect from thin, pseudo-intellectual, semi-bald, fashionably-dressed, gay man, not some powerlifter.
     
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    BDR in a few years?

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    :bowrofl:
     
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    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    This makes good sense. A lot of people when having an argument or serious discussion in a relationship fail to pull their punches or phrase things in a non-hurtful manner. If both partners have enough self control to not intentionally say things that hurt, or if something is said that hurts them, not respond by trying to get their digs in too... it makes things go much better.

    Or in other words, keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.
     
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    PurEvl going out gassed and not half assed...

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    heres some advice, whatever ray says do the opposite
     
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    down the dose?
     
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    kilian You've got quite a treasure there in that Horadric OT Supporter

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    :rofl:
     
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    did i just enter the asylum by mistake? :mamoru:
     
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    ray what else besides clomid are you doing for pct right now?
     
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    I'm on sustanon, tren, npp, var, win, proviron, hgh, prami, pgf2.
     
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    jealous!! :coolugh:
     
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    ah nvm it doesnt sound like you are pcting :bowrofl:

    why are you running clomid while on everything else? (<-- ignorant)


    edit: I cant find any hgh online so im going to run clomid and exemestane for pct think this will be good enough?
     
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    qft. would read again.
     
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    jesus christ thats sexy.
     
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    where do you see that hes running clomid cuz i dont?
     
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    oh fuck I see now :o
     
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