So, I got my girlfriend pregnant. I DO NOT want a speech on how bad that is, you should be more careful, etc. Save that for another thread please. I wanna know how to help her through it. We arent getting an abortion either. Adoption is a choice though. Anyway, the other day she was like "I need a break". I assumed she meant break up, so I was upset. Yesterday, I found that wasnt the case, just her take a couple days to think about things. Today she txt'd me saying how sorry she was that she had been treating me like crap the past few days. Ive been telling her itll be fine, we gotta work through this together, etc. But last night when I called, she said "Im not excited about this anymore, its not how I thought it was gonna be." However, today, she seems to really want to do it after all, and she keeps goin back and forth, which Ive heard is normal just because of her hormones messing up. What else can I do to assure her that itll work out, and generally get her out of her bad mood?