Help talking to Guy

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  1. LordOvenMitt

    LordOvenMitt New Member

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    I go to the same branch of my bank almost all the time. I have been helped by the same guy almost each time lately, too. He knows me by name and recognizes me. I am kind of interested in him, or at least want to get to know him better. The hard part is the fact that the only interactions we have had were in a professional setting. How do I somehow hint that I am interested and what not? I am 19, and I am pretty sure he is in college, too.
    That's about all the info I have for now. Any advice would be great!
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Next time you go in say "want to go out sometime?"

    TA DA!
     
  3. MattThom01

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    Go in sometime when it is near his time to get off...then ask "hey, so what are you up to after work?"

    The sheer fact that you ask this should let him know you are interested.
     
  4. Horror

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    dot. If you are not one who takes initiative, which you should because it makes guys happy as shit, flirt with him a bit.
     
  5. LordOvenMitt

    LordOvenMitt New Member

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    I don't want to be too forward, though. :/
     
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    :rolleyes:
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :barf:

    Fine, just keep doing what you are doing, but don't be shocked if you never get asked out.
     
  8. LordOvenMitt

    LordOvenMitt New Member

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    I know. It's just a difficult scenario, because its usually professional.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    What do you have to lose? Really ask yourself that.

    He could be married. He could have a girlfriend. But what are you really losing by asking the guy if he'd like to go out? And do not say self worth because if you lose that in yourself from asking out one guy well...you need to work on some things :mamoru:

    We've had similar threads on this before and all the guys of the forum confirmed being asked out by a girl is usually awesome. Most of the girls did ask the guy out and usually they ended up dating :dunno:
     
  10. damiand

    damiand Proceed

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    Exactly, maybe hes super interested in you but cant say anything personal because of you being a paying customer, managers wouldnt be stoked on it.. Ask him out.
     
  11. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    if he turns you down itll probobly be because he is in a relationship, not because he thinks he hates you :dunno:
     
  12. JustaMeThang

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    If I am ever single again, one thing I have learned, to cut thru all the jazz is to flat out ask "hey, do you got a GF?' if they say "yes" reply with 'thats a shame', if they say no, ask them to dinner.

    cut and dry, i think its appreciated.
     
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    i work in a bank and it is tough. many times co-workers are very close to you or another customer is in line right behind you. if you're not comfortable asking him out i can see why. slip him a receipt with your name/number on it?
     
  14. Horror

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    Or he may not be attracted.
     
  15. LordOvenMitt

    LordOvenMitt New Member

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    I think that could work. I like that idea. Thanks! :)
     
  16. Viper

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    If you don't want to be too forward, why don't you try getting dressed up and making yourself as attractive as possible and flirting with him a bit?
     
  17. BlackIce72

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    wouldn't work in my case after they see my acct balance on the receipt LOL

    dude jonno when I read this I had to immediately check her location - could have been an ill situation
     
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    oh yeah in other news there was this super hot BoA employee who was helping me

    unfortunately I was there to dispute an overdraft fee so it was kind of an anti-baller situation for me
     
  19. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Unnecessary IMO.

    Just fucking ask. Its basically asking the same question twice. If you just ask, and she has a b/f she will say no, and probably tell you why.

    Plus if you just ask her out she might have someone but be willing to drop them for you anyways. :naughty:
     
  20. Horror

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    -Dress up hot
    -Flirt a bit
    -Ask him on a date

    /thread.
     
  21. spidey255

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    There's this hot girl who works at the bank I go to. I could never ask her out though. She knows how broke I am lol.

    The receipt idea sounds good though.
     

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