SRS help me

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  1. hatedbyall

    hatedbyall New Member

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    I told my ex's sis. I ain't dating no more b/c I dont like her

    does anybody have any better excuses just in case she finds me datin' somebody?
     
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    might wanna elaborate/use correct english. might help us to understand the situation a little more clearly.
     
  3. hatedbyall

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    sorry about that I will just start over

    me and my girlfriend broke up and a few days later her sister asked me out, but I don't like her. I told her "No I am done dating for a while"(lie). The thing is I am about to ask another girl out and they know each other, which will lead to trouble if you know what I mean. I don't know what to do, I am confused about what to say if she sees me and the other girl dating.
     
  4. Darketernal

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    Yes well, i think that you should be more 'tactfull' , i think you should give a unclear meaning of your intentions then directly lying against her. And therefore would lose any responsibility, besides if you 'broke' up with her officially (which you should make clear) then you are allowed to date other people.
     
  5. Jay Pheezy

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    yeah if you really want to date that other girl you have to tell that sis that she's just not what you're looking for. i'm sure she'd understand..
     
  6. Boogieman117

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    Seems like your little white lie is coming back to bite you.

    Make amends with the sister first, then go with the 3rd girl.
     
  7. hatedbyall

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    I don't think that they will ever shutup about me lying to them and surely you all know how that is
     
  8. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    You can say you changed your mind, but only see the ex's sister as a friend.
     
  9. hatedbyall

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    I don't even want to see her sis. because she annoys me to freaking death
     
  10. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    You are entitled to change your mind about not dating - you don't have to be nice to her sis, but you don't have to be annoying either.

    Up to you how to handle it, but since you just broke up you could simply go with sorting your feeligns out.
     
  11. hatedbyall

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    I threw my feelings out the door a long time ago because they were restricting me
     
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    Just ask the 3rd girl out... the sister will get the hint... Obviously you don't like her if you said no to her and are dating the 3rd girl
     
  13. Boogieman117

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    Better go for the gold before the gold gets gone.

    That means go after the 3rd girl, and like justin said, the sister will get the hint.
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    hint, imply, avoid, obscure ... what is this bologna.

    "I'm not into you, sorry." Then go ask the other girl out.
     
  15. hatedbyall

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    I will give it a shot:cool:
     
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    Dating the sisters in quick succession (I dunno if this is the case) will initially drive a wedge between them. When it comes down to it, the sisters will ammend, and you're likely to be pushed out anyways. It's a waste of your time.

    In these types of situations the standard tactic is to sandwich things: pay her a compliment, tell her the bad news, pay her a compliment. If she's being overly forceful skip that and just be direct.
     
  17. hatedbyall

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    she is one of those women who wont ever leave you alone though, even if you tell them off
     
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    Leave out the compliments. Tell her directly that you do not want to date her. Then cut off *all* contact. If you're too nice she'll take that as an invitation to continue. If you're too harsh (ie insulting) she sounds like the type that would be out for revenge.

    My favorite solution is to do her in the pooper and lose her number. That's probably not the best route, though.
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
  20. hatedbyall

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    She hasn't talked to me for a while so I guess she gave up thank god it's about time
     

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